anyone due af around 7th august? 6BFPS!!!!!!!!!!!

[London Kiwi]

Aww thanks Laura for the reassuring words. Just what i needed to hear.
Funnily enough I spoke to soon I think, i currently feel awful!! It might be because im hungry, not sure... I feel dizzy! Need to get some water in me.

Hope you have a lovely weekend too.

Lucy - hope you're having a nice holiday!

 

[laura109]

How are you kiwi? It's scan day for you eeek. X

 

[London Kiwi]

Yes I had the scan yesterday.
You could see the gestation sac, the yolk sac and a fluttering where the heart is.
I'm feeling absolutely fine... Which worries me!! I feel like I should be feeling some sort of morning sickness by now. Maybe next week!
How are you Laura? And Lucy - how was the holiday?

 

[laura109]

Yes I had the scan yesterday.
You could see the gestation sac, the yolk sac and a fluttering where the heart is.
I'm feeling absolutely fine... Which worries me!! I feel like I should be feeling some sort of morning sickness by now. Maybe next week!
How are you Laura? And Lucy - how was the holiday?

Aww thats amazing! Its mad to think their little hearts beat so early. Im feeling pretty sick this week, oh is staying home to work. I feel awful that hes literally doing everything but its really hit me this nausea.

Dont worry about feeling sick you saw the heartbeat baby is fine! I hope you dont get it to bad but you may feel abitmore queasy soon,

How are you
Lucy xx

 

[lucy_smith]

Hey holiday was lovely!
Af turned up

I felt so sick on and off for 3 days before af I was convinced I was pregnant. Af lasted 2 days and was full of clots, i then had about 14 hours of nothing, and the last 2 days I've had maybe 2 clots each day followed by spotting for a few hours and then nothing? Wtf is going on??

I'm glad you two are both doing well x

 

[London Kiwi]

Hey Ladies
I've had family visiting so no time to breathe let alone log in! 😊 My 3 year old nephew and 4 year old niece running riot. Has been great though!
Lucy that sounds like a really strange AF! I used to clot a lot before my laporoscopy. Can be awful sometimes can't it!

7weeks 1 day for me today. I feel ok... Nothing overly interesting to report. I don't feel pregnant at all really, still get the odd cramp and I'm a bit tired but that's it.

Laura how far along are you now? Hope you're feeling ok!

 

[laura109]

Hi london. I have my booking in appointment next week so things are starting to happen. I had a rough week last week but the last two days my nausea has been sooo much better. I still feel drained but i managed to take dd to playgroup today which really cheered me up!!! I am getting nervous now and want to see the 3 month scan so i can relax. I am 9 weeks tomorrow eeek.

Glad you are feeling ok and sounds like you are being kept nice & busy. It's definitely good that u feel well maybe its a boy im thinking im having another girl at the moment.

Hope you are ok lucy. Sorry to see af arrived. When do you see the dr next? X

 

[London Kiwi]

Hey there ladies,
How are you both?
Things have been manic with me hence I've been missing in action. I have my family visiting from NZ at the moment and have been at a wedding this weekend in Scotland.
Laura how did you get on at your booking appointment? I have mine on Weds.
All is good with me, I have had basically zero morning sickness, maybe around 20mins in total of feeling awful. Not sure how I've managed to avoid it but keep wondering if it's yet to come?
8 weeks today according to my LMP but my scan dates pushed me back a few days. Will prob just keep using my LMP dates until my 12 week scan.
I went for the follow up scan and everything looked good, heard the heartbeat too 😊
How are you Lucy? Must be heading for another fertile period coming up?
And Laura you must be pleased to be heading towards the end of the first trimester!
I'm heading to Spain for a week on Sunday so can't wait to relax in the sun for a week ☀️🌴

 

[laura109]

Hey there ladies,
How are you both?
Things have been manic with me hence I've been missing in action. I have my family visiting from NZ at the moment and have been at a wedding this weekend in Scotland.
Laura how did you get on at your booking appointment? I have mine on Weds.
All is good with me, I have had basically zero morning sickness, maybe around 20mins in total of feeling awful. Not sure how I've managed to avoid it but keep wondering if it's yet to come?
8 weeks today according to my LMP but my scan dates pushed me back a few days. Will prob just keep using my LMP dates until my 12 week scan.
I went for the follow up scan and everything looked good, heard the heartbeat too 😊
How are you Lucy? Must b

e heading for another fertile period coming up?
And Laura you must be pleased to be heading towards the end of the first trimester!
I'm heading to Spain for a week on Sunday so can't wait to relax in the sun for a week ☀️🌴

Hi kiwi, that's great that you are feeling well!! You have been busy, i hope you have a fantastic holiday, you must be feeling good I couldn't bare the thought of going anywhere lol,Im guessing a boy for you lol. I have my booking Appointment Wednesday i sure am its great to see the end of this trimester in sight. Just cant wait to feel energetic again. Dont worry about dates changing. They out me five days ahead with my first scan with my daughter. It was impossible but thats what they went with lol.

 

[London Kiwi]

Haha yes they seem to just pluck a random date out of thin air!
Aww that sucks that you're feeling so bad, hope it all disappears as you head into your second trimester. How far along are you now?

I had my midwife appointment today. Was just basically all about filling in documents and a general chat. Then they sent me to the hospital to give bloods.

So just plodding along over here!

How are you Lucy?

 

[laura109]

Haha yes they seem to just pluck a random date out of thin air!
Aww that sucks that you're feeling so bad, hope it all disappears as you head into your second trimester. How far along are you now?

I had my midwife appointment today. Was just basically all about filling in documents and a general chat. Then they sent me to the hospital to give bloods.

So just plodding along over here!

How are you Lucy?

I feel worse at night feeling alot more positive this week i also had my booking in appointment today. Im ten weeks! It was abit dragged out because they are no longer paperless so there was not much interaction. I left it abit long. Waiting for my scan daye to come through now. Exciting times lol. So you are due abit later now? I am due dec 27th xx

 

[laura109]

Hi ladies how are you? I have my 3 month scan on the 13th. Its getting real now eeek x

 

[London Kiwi]

Ola from Spain!
The internet is crap here, wifi is non existant and 3G barely works but managed to find a moment that I could get on and see how everyone is.

I'm grand thanks Laura. I too feel worse at night but I am not really suffering from any awful symptoms which is good. My boobs were killing me yesterday, they are already huge not sure I want them to get any bigger lol. I will have to invest in some new bras when back in the UK.

Exciting about your 3month scan, that's not far away at all! Mine is booked in for either 29 or 30th June, one of those days... So only a few weeks away.

Lucy how are you getting on?

 

[laura109]

Have a fabulous holiday. Ive luckily not had sore boobs. I think i am slowly getting over the worst. Its a week today till my scan. Its such a special day. Last time i walked out of there feeling on top of the world. Finally being able to tell everyone you are pregnant is the best feeling once you know everything is ok. It's definitely a stage when i stop worrying abit too. I bet you can't wait for your scan. Ill be interested in if my dates change

 

[lucy_smith]

Feeling pretty down right now, in pain as my period has just started, and I just phoned the dr and she said ivf isn't available for me on NHS, and just phoned fertility specialist and there is a 6 month waiting list for an appointment!!!!! I've been trying since Nov 2015 and I can't even see a fucking dr! Seems my only option is to either wait for fucking ages or spend a fortune that I don't have and go private

 

[laura109]

Feeling pretty down right now, in pain as my period has just started, and I just phoned the dr and she said ivf isn't available for me on NHS, and just phoned fertility specialist and there is a 6 month waiting list for an appointment!!!!! I've been trying since Nov 2015 and I can't even see a fucking dr! Seems my only option is to either wait for fucking ages or spend a fortune that I don't have and go private

I hate how money gets people what they want. My partners sister paid for ivf but she is a dr and has alot more cash than us. 6 month is a long time to wait. The nhs seems to have no time or support on offer anymore. If u can afford private care you get things alot quicker. My partners cousin has lost 2 babies since last September. She has has given up her job, stopped using fb so she cant see babies, she has got so obsessed with trying her oh is worried about her. She cries all the time. I feel so angry at the nhs for not having more support for women going through these things.

I have forgotten to an extent what has happened for you so far. Have they done anything yet at all? Have you and oh been checked over yet? I truly feel for you its so hard and the system sucks x

 

[London Kiwi]

Hey ladies

Sorry about AF Lucy
And that proper pisses me off about the NHS and IVF.
After all the tests and the minor op I had, when I went back in for my follow up they just said 'unexplained infertility' and they expect the majority of women to fall pregnant within 6months of a laporoscopy.
They made me an appointment there on the spot to go back 7months later in Nov which would be the first appointment to discuss the option of IVF.

Obviously I got pregnant in the meantime, Infact I was prob pregnant at that appointment! But it actually infuriated me because we had been trying since 2015 like you and they expected me to wait another 7 months and keep trying. No one likes to hear that!!

I hate to say it but they were right and I fell pregnant naturally...
Maybe you could go to the GP and ask to be referred for a laporoscopy and dye test? That might be the next step in the process for you anyway and fingers crossed you'd fall pregnant immediately.

It's all so shit though, no matter what anyone says or does, it doesn't change the fact you're still in the same position of "trying" which we all know is bloody frustrating!

How are you Laura?
I feel really quite negative today. I'm back from Spain, back in work and just don't feel pregnant. Sounds so stupid but the lack of symptoms is getting to me... Not even an ounce of morning sickness at all and I'm 10 weeks today. I know I saw and heard the heartbeat a couple of weeks ago so should be more positive but I'm really not

 

[laura109]

Hey ladies

Sorry about AF Lucy
And that proper pisses me off about the NHS and IVF.
After all the tests and the minor op I had, when I went back in for my follow up they just said 'unexplained infertility' and they expect the majority of women to fall pregnant within 6months of a laporoscopy.
They made me an appointment there on the spot to go back 7months later in Nov which would be the first appointment to discuss the option of IVF.

Obviously I got pregnant in the meantime, Infact I was prob pregnant at that appointment! But it actually infuriated me because we had been trying since 2015 like you and they expected me to wait another 7 months and keep trying. No one likes to hear that!!

I hate to say it but they were right and I fell pregnant naturally...
Maybe you could go to the GP and ask to be referred for a laporoscopy and dye test? That might be the next step in the process for you anyway and fingers crossed you'd fall pregnant immediately.

It's all so shit though, no matter what anyone says or does, it doesn't change the fact you're still in the same position of "trying" which we all know is bloody frustrating!

How are you Laura?
I feel really quite negative today. I'm back from Spain, back in work and just don't feel pregnant. Sounds so stupid but the lack of symptoms is getting to me... Not even an ounce of morning sickness at all and I'm 10 weeks today. I know I saw and heard the heartbeat a couple of weeks ago so should be more positive but I'm really not

Hi kiwi, i have an angelsounds doppler and have heard my babies heartbeat every day since 10 weeks. I recommend one to put your mind at ease. My best friend had zero nausea etc with her son. Its common for people to feel great. Its very unlikely to have a missed mc so without bleeding you are very much doing great. I have my scan tomorrow. If all goes well we can announce our news which is great because it feels like it has been forever. I am a little nervous. I still worry abit about things going wrong but i know im getting nearer the saftey zone. Whens your scan hun?

Lucy i hope it is not upsetting you seeing us talking about pregnancy as id never want to be insensitive. I can't imagine how frustrated you are. It is a long road could be worth trying what kiwi mentioned. We are always here x

 

[London Kiwi]

Hmm maybe I am pregnant because I totally have baby brain!
I've ordered an angelsounds Doppler and it actually should be arriving today. For the price I thought it was def worth it for peace of mind!

My scan is 30 June so a while away yet.
Yay that yours is tomorrow.

Yes Lucy, absolutely second what Laura said... I'd hate to upset you.
You know what, for me... I think it's much easier to hear of people pregnant on here than people you know on FB etc... Always seemed like a massive dagger through the heart every day when I logged in and saw yet someone else pregnant that wasn't me!

I really hope you get pregnant soon X

 

[London Kiwi]

Angelsounds arrived and I think I can hear something!
I'm only ten weeks ish today so it's faint but I'm sure there's something there.
Hope it's not my own heartbeat lol