Anyone else a quiet person?

[tu123]

Hey peeps. I'll happily gas away to my pals when we meet up. But i really have to push myself to talk when on my own with LO!

I am quite happy to just sit with her in my arms, cuddle and laze out. But i have to make a conscious effort to ramble! Makes me feel like such a bad mum!

 

[shellie]

When my son was a small baby I used to whisper to him instead of speaking in a normal volume voice. This was because I just felt weird speaking to someone who didnt speak back and having a one way conversation, if that makes sense? Once he started trying to speak himself though I stopped the whispering,lol. xxx

 

[Brieanna]

I am too! I have to make an effort to speak. I try to narrate what I am doing and sing what I am doing, but sometimes I suddenly realize it's been hours since I have spoken a word and I feel horrible!

 

[buddyIV]

I'm the same, I have to make a conscious effort to talk all the time to LO. It's fine if we're outside and there's things to provoke a thought, and point out and explain, but when we're in the house I find myself being a bit quieter. There's only so many times I can say, "oh look, yes, that's the red square. Rrrrreeeeed Square. How about the blue triangle over here...the Blllluuuuuueee Triangle!" before I start feeling mental.

 

[Faffalina]

My sister is very quiet, but her 3 year old is a real chatterbox.

You give your LO the love, and that's more important.

 

[Natsku]

I'm exactly the same, find it so hard to just talk to Maria, especially as she usually ignores me anyway.

 

[cherryglitter]

jake ignores me lol!

 

[Natsku]

jake ignores me lol!

Maria either ignores me, or she'll be perfectly happy playing and I'll start talking to her and then she bursts out in tears

 

[cherryglitter]

awww ^^ bless her!!

 

[sapphire1]

I usually only talk to Holly to tell her off I do seem to spend an inordinate amount of time singing to her though. I have conversations in song, it's the only way she listens, but we get funny looks when we're in public...

 

[satine51]

I usually only talk to Holly to tell her off I do seem to spend an inordinate amount of time singing to her though. I have conversations in song, it's the only way she listens, but we get funny looks when we're in public...

I have to make a conciosu effort too. But I do tend to sing to her! I also try to read to her, even if she doesn't understand, at least she hears my voice

 

[purapura]

I'm the same, I have to make an effort to talk to my LO... I don't think that silence is bad