Anyone else expecting a November sparkler? *Updated with due dates!*

[gardenofedens]

Such a chatty group, lol.

So jealous of all of you with scans, 13 more days until mine! I'll be 12+3. The dr wanted me to come in the week before and I'm kicking myself for not accepting one of those appts. I didn't because they were all in the morning and dh can only come in the afternoon but still!

That's awesome you found both hbs zowie, very neat. My little bun moves so much it's about impossible to find the hb and when I do it's only for a few seconds and then he's gone again! I don't remember which scan it was with my dd since we had one every 4 weeks starting at 5 weeks until 20 weeks but one of them she was totally asleep through. I remember poking her and she still wouldn't move. Hoping this little one is more active at the scan! Before the gender scan I ate a popsicle just so I could see her moving around. The tech wasn't amused; said it makes her job of taking measurements harder. Oops!

 

[grich2011]

Good luck KDK thinking of you hun xx

Angel last week of tri 1 you lucky bugger! I can't wait to finally be able to say I am in tri 2 as I think psychologically it is less stressful than tri 1.

Grinch will it be your 12 week scan, or will you have another one?

It will be my 12 week scan they wernt even going to give me one though because I had one at 9 weeks and I didn't want to wait till 20 weeks for my next one

 

[Kdk24]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

 

[grich2011]

Such a chatty group, lol.

So jealous of all of you with scans, 13 more days until mine! I'll be 12+3. The dr wanted me to come in the week before and I'm kicking myself for not accepting one of those appts. I didn't because they were all in the morning and dh can only come in the afternoon but still!

That's awesome you found both hbs zowie, very neat. My little bun moves so much it's about impossible to find the hb and when I do it's only for a few seconds and then he's gone again! I don't remember which scan it was with my dd since we had one every 4 weeks starting at 5 weeks until 20 weeks but one of them she was totally asleep through. I remember poking her and she still wouldn't move. Hoping this little one is more active at the scan! Before the gender scan I ate a popsicle just so I could see her moving around. The tech wasn't amused; said it makes her job of taking measurements harder. Oops!

It may make her job harder but it is a nice reassurance I seem mine moving its arms and legs at 9 weeks and it was amazing made it feel real

 

[BubsMom17]

Kdk24 - I am sooo sorry... my heart and my prayers are with you. I can't imagine what you and DH are going through.

 

[BubsMom17]

I have a routine appt today, so I am happy I get to leave work early on a Friday! I wonder what they will tell me since it's just a check-up (BP, weight, urine dip, etc)... I am definitely going to ask about the headaches. It's a 5 day a week thing... I went to bed with a headache last night, slept great all night, and woke up with a migraine... arrghhh... Anyone have any idea what she might say??? Maybe draw more bloods or something??? I didn't have this problem with my 1st pregnancy...

BUT 3 more sleeps until my 13 week scan!!! I am so nervous and excited at the same time! Also, I can't believe I made it to 13 weeks already! It sure has flown by...

 

[Angeltk42]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

Oh my heart breaks for you!! I am so sorry! I hope you and your OH's heart mends quick and you get your sticky bean soon! xoxox Please be well and I will say prayers for you and your family especially your baby.

 

[Angeltk42]

I have a routine appt today, so I am happy I get to leave work early on a Friday! I wonder what they will tell me since it's just a check-up (BP, weight, urine dip, etc)... I am definitely going to ask about the headaches. It's a 5 day a week thing... I went to bed with a headache last night, slept great all night, and woke up with a migraine... arrghhh... Anyone have any idea what she might say??? Maybe draw more bloods or something??? I didn't have this problem with my 1st pregnancy...

BUT 3 more sleeps until my 13 week scan!!! I am so nervous and excited at the same time! Also, I can't believe I made it to 13 weeks already! It sure has flown by...

Goodluck today!! I hope they can give you some answers on those Headaches! My friend had them with both her pregnancies until 4 months.. Hope that's not the case with you. Or if it is that they end when 4 months hit.
We are Peaches today!!!!! 13 weeks! woohoo

 

[Tower6]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

I'm so mad I just wrote you and the whole thing deleted!!!! Ugh!!

Hunny, I'm laying in bed crying for you as I write this. I am so so sorry to hear this news. Gosh it breaks my heart to know what your having to go through. I can't say I've ever been in your shoes but I am now sitting for 9 more days awaiting the possibly great news or horrible news that I will get. Please please pm me of you want to talk. I have been laying in my room for a few days just staring at my little angel and wondering if this is really happening yet being so in love. I was so naieve as to what can happen as I've never even had this scan with any of my kids. One thing I know is that we have been connected to our babies from day one and that motherly bond is something no diagnostic can just end on the spot. So I am here for you and my heart hurts for you do please do write if you need to talk because I'm here and haven't told anyone still so I would love to talk. Man I wish this was not the news I would hear but I am glad that you got a for sure diagnostic and that you found out soon enough that you wouldn't have to see your little angel struggle. I am praying for you love.

You are stronger than I am.

Massive hugs and prayers

 

[grich2011]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

Praying for you

 

[Tower6]

Peanut- update on your drive! My appointments were back to back but in the same office. I can't wait to see your baby!!

I think miss Kenya asked me but not sure- I get labs back in 9 days. The wait is torture. I feel like they shouldn't have told me anything until the bloods and the scan were in and then give an actual diagnostic and not just a "maybe it's prefect, or maybe it is severely not compatible with life" This is so hard.

Your in my thoughts Kdk...

 

[laura3103]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

Oh sorry sorry about your sad news chick

 

[Tower6]

I'm a peach! I forgot with the daze ive been in since Wednesday but for another week!

 

[mimomma]

I'm so very sorry to hear kdk. Take care of yourself.

 

[teacup22]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

So sorry

 

[Angeltk42]

Peanut- update on your drive! My appointments were back to back but in the same office. I can't wait to see your baby!!

I think miss Kenya asked me but not sure- I get labs back in 9 days. The wait is torture. I feel like they shouldn't have told me anything until the bloods and the scan were in and then give an actual diagnostic and not just a "maybe it's prefect, or maybe it is severely not compatible with life" This is so hard.

Your in my thoughts Kdk...

xoxox I know you are scared to death and I would be too in your position. But please please remember that the scan is so unreliable. Praying for bloods to be normal. 9 Days is a torterous time to wait! I agree they should have waited to give you the FULL details before putting you through this 9 day waiting game. You are in my prayers that everything is fine.

 

[Storked]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

So many prayers for you during this time. I am so sorry kdk.

 

[Dazed125]

Well lovely ladies... We are gracefully bowing out. Had my genetic scan and baby is missing an arm and only has half a leg on the left side. Also, baby has a shortened umbilical cord causing little one to twist and develop spinal problems. They like it might be scar tissue from a previous d&c that caused these abnormalities to happen very early on in developement.
There is no chance of baby recovery and developing normally, so we've chosen to terminate!
I'm so heartbroken! Good news is, there's no reason we can't try again in 2-3 months!
I'm so glad I found such a wonderful group of women to share this experience with!!! Best of luck!!!

Kdk, I am so so sorry to hear this, I cried when I read your post and can only imagine how you must be feeling. If you need to talk please message me x

 

[lovehearts]

Kdk- I am so sorry and sad to read your news. My thoughts are with both. xxxxx

 

[zowiey]

So I activated my account on fb, and then added Gemie as a friend without adding a message as to who I am sorry Gemie, it's been a while since I was on FB! So how do I find the group?!