Anyone else expecting a November sparkler? *Updated with due dates!*

[609Mom]

I'm due Nov 11 with my baby boy

 

[Creative]

609 welcome to the sparklers

 

[609Mom]

Thanks!! I just need to work on telling my family now I haven't found the rite way/time to tell everyone. My husband doesn't want more children :-/ so I'm super nervous!!

 

[Creative]

Thanks!! I just need to work on telling my family now I haven't found the rite way/time to tell everyone. My husband doesn't want more children :-/ so I'm super nervous!!

Does your husband not know yet?
I bet with time he will come round.

 

[609Mom]

No, I haven't said anything yet.. My 3yo was born with cystic fibrosis so i wanted to wait for the results of the cvs before i said anything.. wanted to spare him the three weeks or worry waiting for the results. BUT now i know everything is perfect and i still cant find a way to tell him..

 

[Dazed125]

Oh my gosh 609!!!!!! How the heck have you kept quiet for so long!!!! You're a much stronger woman than me!!! And welcome ��

 

[lovehearts]

Wow 609,welcome to the sparklers. One of my good friends has a LO with cf and she too went through the testing when she was pregnant with her next baby. It was a tough time and I admire anyone that goes through it. And to do it alone, massive I hope it hasn't been too stressful for you.

How are you hiding your bump from your husband?

Good luck with telling him. I think quickly is the best way. Probably the sooner the better too.

Good luck xx

 

[609Mom]

i'm not sure if my last post went up.. :-/ new to this.. still trying to get the hang of it..

 

[609Mom]

OH thank you so much love I have no idea how i'm hiding my bump.. I have gained at least 13lbs... maybe he is blind??? hahahaha! I'm not a large person.. usually between 120 and 125lbs so..

The testing was quite stressful because of the risk but the wait for the results was even worse... I got in for the test asap, got a call two days later with the fish results and the sex which was exciting THEN another 2 weeks before the full genetic work up came back even though i gave them a blood sample and allowed them a sample from my daughter.. I think its been a week and a half now that i have been sitting on this.. i cant find a way to spit it out.. i'm too scared uhhh

 

[Gemie]

Welcome 609
I can't believe you've not told your hubby yet! I let my hubby know at every chances get plus he has to fetch me things and cook for me lol

 

[2nd time]

Wow 609 your amazing I didnt tell dh for 3weeks with baby number 3 he wants more I just needed more time lol we didnt tell his mum till 30 weeks lol this time we told everyone straight away

 

[609Mom]

30 weeks to tell his mom LOL thats great! I wish we could get away with that It may be 30 weeks before i get up enough courage to tell my husband tho LOL i need to just get over it already and tell him.. then run away hahaha!! I have nothing but good news at this point.. the baby isnt even a carrier of Cystic Fibrosis and its a boy.. he did want a boy from the start..

 

[BubsMom17]

609 - Wowza, you have kept it quiet sooo long!!! But then again, DH and I had been trying for 5 months, so when I got my BFP I was shouting and running and jumping up and down the halls of my house.

Do you have any ideas on how you are going to spill the beans (or... bean, in this case)?

 

[2nd time]

30 weeks to tell his mom LOL thats great! I wish we could get away with that It may be 30 weeks before i get up enough courage to tell my husband tho LOL i need to just get over it already and tell him.. then run away hahaha!! I have nothing but good news at this point.. the baby isnt even a carrier of Cystic Fibrosis and its a boy.. he did want a boy from the start..

So you have waited so long you may as well tell him in a creative way lol whens his birthday, your anniversary or it is farthers day in the uk on 16th you could cook him an english meal and give him a card lol

 

[2nd time]

Afm I took three tots to dentist then played in garden in the pool with them then midwife app then costco then garden center home chocolate cake an monsters to bed gosh im tired

 

[609Mom]

That sounds like a good idea.. i would hate to plan on waiting until the 16th and chickening out LOL i have no ideas tho... i just don't know.. i was waiting until it felt rite but it hasnt :-?.. i dont want to wait too long now that i have all of the test results tho.. he could pull the aetna website and see the medical bills at any moment if he really wanted.. i want to be the one to tell him.. dont want him to find out by accident. i dont want him thinking i'm getting fat and lazy either LOL.. i have had ZERO energy lately..

 

[609Mom]

Also.. we where not trying.. at all. i was taking birth control pills. they made me moody and gave me acne.. i got pregnant anyway.. yay

 

[2nd time]

Im sure he will be thrilled but I would not leave it too much longer he might be hurt

 

[609Mom]

I'm with you on that one 2nd... i just need the words to exit my mouth n i'm all good! i keep trying and all i end up saying is uhhhhhh n he sais whats wrong.. i say nothing.. lol

 

[jammers77]

609Mom, you've made my jaw drop thoroughly, hon!! I'm in shock that you have managed to keep it a secret this long. And bore the burden on your shoulders. Bless your heart, you're a trooper, but I'm sure it's been rough for you!! Keep us updated on how and when you tell hubby. lol