Anyone else expecting a November sparkler? *Updated with due dates!*

Have had the appointment for my NHS dating scan come through - 25th April......sounds like AGES away! Think OH and I are going to book in for a private early scan next week so at least that will break up the time a bit.

Still not feeling 100% :( I think my bad cold/flu has now turned into a sinus infection which is causing me a lot of pain. Really fed up with being ill now!

Ah bless you hun, why do we seen to come down with these rotten viruses when we are pregnant and feeling pretty rubbish anyway? Hope you feel better soon,, have they given you anything to shift it? x
 
Thanks so much ladies, I needed to get it out, and being so anonymous here really helps :hugs:

Lora, I think I'll be a little more relaxed, but I don't know if I'll ever be fully confident, but I guess that's normal for everyone anyway isn't it.

xxxx
 
Ah bless you hun, why do we seen to come down with these rotten viruses when we are pregnant and feeling pretty rubbish anyway? Hope you feel better soon,, have they given you anything to shift it? x

We've all had this virus Me, Hubby and DS :( it's worse than a cold but not quite as bad as flu (although not far off) I'm pretty certain I probably came down with it worse as my immune system will be a bit shot at the moment. Doctor wouldn't give me anything for it so have just had to ride it out - not sure if I should go back now I think it's turned into a sinus infection or whether to see if it goes on it's own. I don't like to bother them if theres no reason to.
 
Hey girls I just jnvited a new girl to out thread I think she's due she 1st week in nov- she wants to join but how do I post a link for her?
 
Hey girls I just jnvited a new girl to out thread I think she's due she 1st week in nov- she wants to join but how do I post a link for her?

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/p...-november-sparkler-updated-due-dates-143.html

Zowiey, Im glad you feel better for getting it off your chest, sometimes it really does help doesnt it? Sometimes I tell the ladies on here things i just cant talk to my DH and family about. Its easier i think. I think its normal to worry in pregnancy too xx

Shazza, Id maybe give it a couple of days and if you are no better go back? No point suffering if there is something they can give to help :flower: xx
 
Hi girls,

Could I join you? Im Due on 29th November!!

H&H 9 months
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Afternoon ladies :wave:

I've been looking at the sea bands, I've always wondered if they work, I travel really badly too, so I probably should invest in some.

Teacup, caffine free coke has become my best friend- also doesn't taste to bad on the return either!!

Rant ahead, sorry :flower:

I have my scan tomorrow, literally I am pooping my pants, it's not until 12.45, so tomorrow morning is going to drag! It's so stupid, but I'm terrified of crying in front of the nurse, it stems from the ivf, it's such a hugely scientific procedure that even though the nurses & Drs are nice, it's still all very black and white, either you have embryos to transfer or you don't. And because of that I always feel that I can't show any sort of emotion, which in turn leads me to make myself more stressed. I keep imagining lying in the room, and them telling me there's no heartbeat and how I'll react, purely because I'm scared to cry, I mean who does this??

Everyone keeps telling me that I'll be fine, I've had no bleeding, and am having symptoms, but still I can't let myself believe it. Getting pg is so easy for so many people, and we've had such a bloody hard struggle to get here, so why all of a sudden should things get easy? That's not how things work for us. All we know is dissapointment & frustration. My family all know about the ivf and the pg, as unfortunately my cousin took his own life 6 weeks ago, he was only 26. They had to know why I couldn't help my aunt as much as i wanted to. But now they all believe this is the bright light we need. A reminder that no matter how bleak & dark times get, it always gets better. but what if this isnt the glimmer of hope they think it is, what if I give them only more bad news. Sorry for the rant girls, but I've had such a rubbish couple of months, and I'm so scared this is going to be the icing on the cake. I've tried to keep this in, as everyone has more than enough to worry about, without me adding to it.

Sorry again, I hate any sort of drama, and i hate being the one with the "drama" but I needed to get it out somehow. Sorry again.


:hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
OMG!!! So I found out some interesting stuff just now on facebook. I got a message from my Ex-husbands daughter ( She is now 20 years old, I am 29) She wanted to tell me her father is back in prison and that I am better to have left him because he ruined my life. Well, she is 26 weeks pregnant with a little boy and wanted to share. I am so very happy for her. She will make a great mommy. I told her I too am pregnant. She then expressed to me that even though I am no longer her step-mom that she wants to meet my twins when they are born and wants me to meet her little boy. She said blood doesn't matter that we will always be family and she always found me to be more of a big sister than her step-mom. I am crying because I am so happy. Am I silly?
 
That's not silly at all, it's amazing

And she's right, I love my step dad as much as I could ever love my dad. It's not true that you can't choose your family!! X
 
Aww that's lovely peanut good things can come from bad. I'm really happy for you :)
 
Thanks girls, what a welcoming group!!! Will be a pleasure hoping this time goes quickly with you!!

:happydance::happydance:
 
Peanut- that made me cry- so touching.

Dazed- welcome abort the nov preggo train :) we love to talk! Definitely helps the days pass.

Anyone that is sick- take UNISOM!!! It's over the counter and works like Benadryl but safer. My midwife said to break it in half and u can use during the day but if you take it at night it will help with sleep as well as make you feel so much better thru the nigh and upon waking :D can't ask for much more than that! Try it out and let others know what you think- I feel great!
 
When did you girls start feeling sick? I know it's silly to WANT more symptoms but I kind of want some reassurance little bean is settling in and so far I just feel like I do before my Tom.
 
When did you girls start feeling sick? I know it's silly to WANT more symptoms but I kind of want some reassurance little bean is settling in and so far I just feel like I do before my Tom.

Not properly until a few days ago. Yesterday was my worst so far :sick: you're still really early for sickness so don't worry! The norm is about 6weeks :thumbup:
 
I'm 8 weeks and it has only happened about 3 times but that started within the last week. I was posting how I don't feel pregnant and how I had zero symptoms aside from exhausted. Not even sore boobs. It's still like this except for these few times of nausea. I will say though that since Friday I have had more moments of sickness than ever before with this baby. So week 8 seems to be the start for me and I thought 9-10 weeks should be nearing the end but we'll see
 

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