Anyone else expecting a November sparkler? *Updated with due dates!*

[Kdk24]

Peanutmomma... I always respond, or at least I think I do? I dont most much because while I'm at work you chatty cathy's have written 11 pages and it's hard to keep up! I'm always listening/reading, I just don't have a lot to say!

 

[Dazed125]

Peanutmomma - I'm still the new girl trying to get to know everyone but hi! *waves*

Feeling v hormonal atm - yelled at oh for drinking the last of the juice!!! Having a little chuckle now at the look on his face!!! I'm so lucky with him, he looked at me like I'm insane and then just said ok I'll go get some more....have a feeling this is gonna be a long nine months for him.......

You all seem like wonder-mums to me, but any of you hormonal/grouchy too??

X

 

[Babycakes29]

Aww peanutmomma I'm still here!!! We're all in this together!!! I just can't keep up with this thread!!! I go to work, go for my break and there's always about 10 pages to catch up on lol. If it makes you feel any better I had a complete meltdown on Sunday because OH forgot to put a kiss at the end of 1 msg :/ think we're all feeling a bit hormonal but like I said we're all in this together xxxxxx

 

[teacup22]

I can't keep up with this group anymore
Sorry your feeling sad peanut xx

 

[zowiey]

Wow! Ok lots to go through!
Gemie, yep they are ivf twinnies
Peanut, the sonographer really struggled to get a good picture of them together, and I was worried that twin 2 wasn't as developed, but actually he's bigger! But as you can see from the scan pic, he just looks like a blob, the cutest blob I ever saw, but a blob none the less
Also, sorry you feel ignored, I think I'm guilty of not always catching up on past posts so could seem like I'm ignoring people, sorry if that's the impression I may have given, it certainly hasn't been intentional

Hello to everyone else :wave: hope you all have a good day!
xx

 

[lovehearts]

I dont think anyone is meaning to you ignore you peanut Its a fast moving group, i havnt got a clue whats going on half of the time

Congrats on twins zowiey.

I actually joked about twins to DH last night, he said he would love it....... Highly unlikly for me.

xx

 

[miss_kseniya]

Zowiey fab news chick. Glad the scan went well. I would love twins, but feel like I definitely only have 1 wriggler in there. Will find out next week!

Peanut hugs chick. I have to admit I am probably guilty of missing people out, but not intentionally. The thread moves so fast for me sometimes, that I try and remember everyone but someone always inevitably gets missed off.

Tower is hubby doing it intentionally chick or is it because your hormones are making things seem worse? My OH and me have always had a jokey, almost sarcastic relationship where we take the micky out of each other in a funny, jokey way, but since being preg, I find some of his comments more hurtful even though they are the same as he's always done. Definitely my silly hormones in my case and I think he's a bit confused as to what he has done wrong

Rest of the girls How is everyone doing. Are you finding time dragging at the mo, or going quite quickly? I think the first 2 weeks after my positive test flew by but it's dragging now until my first scan next week.

As for me.........PUKE! I feel so ill this morning, lol. I keep bringing my hot water bottle into work in a fluffy case as it keeps me nice and warm. I don't care what my colleagues think either haha.

 

[Dazed125]

It's dragging for me baaaaaadly!!!

Have minor cramps today and its completely freaking me out, google is not my friend!!! Only have 2 days at work this week, hopefully when I'm back to all week working it will take my mind off of it!

So, apart from your OHs who else have you told about your pregnancy? We have already told my close family and friends, mainly because they knew we were going through the hospital ttc so when they ask how it's going it felt wrong for me to lie...does make me more nervous of something going wrong, but on the other hand, if it does it will b nice to have the support

 

[zowiey]

Dazed, we had ivf, this was our 2nd attempt, and didn't want to tell anyone, but unfortunately due to a family death, everyone found out. So yesterday was spent visiting Aunts, uncles & grandparents! I feel a little like we may have jinxed it, but then if the worse was to happen, my family would be told anyway. Only my closest friend knows. Oh and I'm self employed and all the people I work for know too! So actually loads of people know

 

[Dazed125]

Thank you Zowiey, that has made me feel a bit better about letting the cat out of the bag so early

I know what you mean about jinxing it, i feel like that too.....But our little beans don't know if we have told anyone, they are busy getting warm and comfy

 

[lovehearts]

Only my friends know (2 of them are friends i met on here but are now my RL friends) and 2 who i couldnt hide it from even if i wanted too. My OH has told his manager incase he needs to get out of work for whatever reason. Thats it. None of out families know yet. We told them straight away with my son. He turns 2 on friday and i want the excitement to be about him for now. We are having an early scan next week all being well and hopefully we will announce to family only then. The rest of the world wont know until 12+ weeks. x

 

[LoraLoo]

I'm sorry to be so negative and depressing ladies, but I just have a bad feeling I feel like the baby has gone, Im not being sick any more, I dont feel pregnant at all.

 

[lovehearts]

lora, can you get a reassurance scan? Did the mw manage to get you in early? iv read a lot of people saying their symptoms dissapear and all is fine.xxx

 

[teacup22]

Lora. My symptoms went yesterday as now they are back. I'm sure all is fine! Have you had/having a scan?

 

[LoraLoo]

She said she'd push my 12 week scan forward but said it would only probably be 1-2 weeks anyway got myself in a right state now. Theres not even anywhere local that do private scans.

 

[3boys]

oh Lora im sure everything is fine, I can only imagine what you are going through, if u rang your doctor and explained how concerned u are would they not send u to the epu? My symptoms came and went with Jacob and i used to get myself in an awful state thinking it was another mmc. Sending lots of hugs x

 

[Dazed125]

Huge hugs Lora xxx

 

[miss_kseniya]

Big hugs Lora. I had one day last week where I felt I had no symptoms and posted on here worrying about it, then suddenly at bedtime i felt ridiculously sick again and have had symptoms again ever since. I think these things can come and go sometimes, especially the closer you get to 9 weeks when the placenta takes over.

Dazed, We've told my folks (will tell OH's mum after the scan next week, just in case), both of our bosses, and I have told about 4 close colleagues at work because it is becoming more obvious that I have morning sickness and keep dry heaving at funny smells. We will tell our siblings and grandparents after the 7.5 week scan next week and then wider family/facebook people after 13 week scan in May. I kind of feel that people knowing is not going to stop things from going wrong if they are going to go wrong anyway, and the extra support would be helpful if the worst happens.

 

[Creative]

29th of november for me. This will be number 4 for me.

 

[zowiey]

Oh Lora, sending huge to you. I don't know what to say, I hope you're completely wrong and that your symptoms come back full force tomorrow
xxx