Anyone else expecting a November sparkler? *Updated with due dates!*

[3boys]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? I can just imagine the abuse i will face when people find out im pregnant with my 6th if last time is anything to go by, Im not even going back to the nearest hospital as one of the doctors completely ruined my birth experience with Jacob by making me feel guilty for even being there, telling me its people like me who make her job difficult by getting pregnant and not considering the dangers of getting the baby out. She even wanted me to have a c-section and be sterilised at the same time. Like its any of her business. Any true friend of mine knows how much my kids are loved and cared for. x

 

[Creative]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? x

or how old you should not be!

Last year I got some comments such as "shouldn't you be waiting for grandchildren" now or "wow, you are how old?"

Perhaps we are all guilty of thinking things, but there is a time when you just don't say them outloud!!

 

[3boys]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? x

or how old you should not be!

Last year I got some comments such as "shouldn't you be waiting for grandchildren" now or "wow, you are how old?"

Perhaps we are all guilty of thinking things, but there is a time when you just don't say them outloud!!

I cant believe someone would say that! people tell me im too young to have so many kids but i will happily accept all blessings from God so i guess it wont be long before im "too old" for kids lol.

 

[Gemie]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? I can just imagine the abuse i will face when people find out im pregnant with my 6th if last time is anything to go by, Im not even going back to the nearest hospital as one of the doctors completely ruined my birth experience with Jacob by making me feel guilty for even being there, telling me its people like me who make her job difficult by getting pregnant and not considering the dangers of getting the baby out. She even wanted me to have a c-section and be sterilised at the same time. Like its any of her business. Any true friend of mine knows how much my kids are loved and cared for. x

she wanted reporting!! Vile bitch

 

[Dazed125]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? x

or how old you should not be!

Last year I got some comments such as "shouldn't you be waiting for grandchildren" now or "wow, you are how old?"

Perhaps we are all guilty of thinking things, but there is a time when you just don't say them outloud!!

Amen to this!! I can remember being on holiday and we were talking to an older couple who asked us if we had children and my OH replied by saying not yet, this couple just laughed as if he was joking that we would still want kids in the future at our age - I was only 30 at the time!!!

Maybe we just look really old - lol xx

 

[LoraLoo]

isnt it amazing how everyone has an opinion on how many kids u should have? I can just imagine the abuse i will face when people find out im pregnant with my 6th if last time is anything to go by, Im not even going back to the nearest hospital as one of the doctors completely ruined my birth experience with Jacob by making me feel guilty for even being there, telling me its people like me who make her job difficult by getting pregnant and not considering the dangers of getting the baby out. She even wanted me to have a c-section and be sterilised at the same time. Like its any of her business. Any true friend of mine knows how much my kids are loved and cared for. x

I get comments too I've had
'Haven't you got enough?'
'You dont have to single handedly try and repopulate the world'
'This better be the last'
'You're mad'
'What do you want another for?'

And if i ever make a comment about the kids, as you do, the usual 'the kids are driving me bonkers today' I get 'Well you will keep having kids'

I tell them we are planning on another 7 when they make their comments but it really gets to me!

 

[MandaAnda]

I just look at people like that like they're completely insane and say, "Wow. Did you REALLY just say that out loud?" They then usually realise what dicks they've been.

 

[3boys]

I just look at people like that like they're completely insane and say, "Wow. Did you REALLY just say that out loud?" They then usually realise what dicks they've been.

I must try that next time! lol

As for reporting the doctor my hubby wanted to and my g.p encouraged me to but im just so sensitive i couldnt go through with it. She kept warning me of all the "bad" things that were going to happen and how i was probably going to be rushed for an emergency section and lose loads of blood etc. as it happened I had a 28 minute labour with no complications and Jacob and i were just fine.

 

[LoraLoo]

I just look at people like that like they're completely insane and say, "Wow. Did you REALLY just say that out loud?" They then usually realise what dicks they've been.

I must try that next time! lol

As for reporting the doctor my hubby wanted to and my g.p encouraged me to but im just so sensitive i couldnt go through with it. She kept warning me of all the "bad" things that were going to happen and how i was probably going to be rushed for an emergency section and lose loads of blood etc. as it happened I had a 28 minute labour with no complications and Jacob and i were just fine.

Ive heard you are at higher risk of bleeding after i think its 4 or 5 babies, but ive never been told you are more likely to have a section?

 

[peanutmomma]

wow long eventful day everyone? I played in the woodshop with DH and his dad I made a little something. We went to see a movie and DH made me dinner. Oh, I just posted tower6 new 9w3d picture on the bump thread if you all wanna see

 

[Tower6]

I love you peanut

I feel like I haven't been in here in a month lol only 3 days but spring break has kept me so busy running all 3 kids plus friends around. I feel like a drug addict with the way I sneak away fit just 5 minutes to check on this thread lol even if I don't have time to post I get a fill checking in! LOL

I will stop in and post on all the juicy topics I've read after Easter tomorrow, have a busy night tonight.

Can't believe I'm sliding on thru 9 weeks this week!! Woo hoo for everyday all of us ladies get closer to second tri!!!

 

[teacup22]

People can be so insensitive!
Happy Easter everyone!
9 weeks for me today!! Only 3 weeks now till 12 weeks
It's actually goin quite quickly now dare I say it!
Hope your all ok x

 

[miss_kseniya]

Happy Easter everyone.

I've learned that opinions are like arseholes....everyone has one and a lot of them are full of sh*t. Ignore the idiots please ladies. Years ago, before contraception exsited and hospital births were unheard of, women would have as many babies as they would be blessed with, at home without loads of medical intervention and most of the births worked out ok. We've been doing this for thousands of years without hospital intervention and c-sections!

Stupid doctors! Next time, tell them even The Queen had 4 children and no-one ever told her not to have babies!

:rant over:

How is everyone today anyway? We're having a nice chilled weekend cuz OH is away with work next week (will miss our early scan sadly ) so making the most of our time before he goes.

 

[zowiey]

Wow! I am just shocked at how awful people can be! Why do people get so caught up in other people's business?
I've only had my cousin be insensitive so far, she told me she'd hate me & never talk to me again if I have a boy! She has 3 girls (the 3rd, is by her best friends husband-I never once made a comment about that!) I mean, really? It's taken us 4 1/2 years and 2 attempts at ivf to get this far & the first thing you say is that you'll hate me if I have a boy?!! I won't tell her that I have a feeling it's twin boys

Miss K, Tuesday will be here before you know it! Are you going by yourself? xx

 

[3boys]

I just look at people like that like they're completely insane and say, "Wow. Did you REALLY just say that out loud?" They then usually realise what dicks they've been.

I must try that next time! lol

As for reporting the doctor my hubby wanted to and my g.p encouraged me to but im just so sensitive i couldnt go through with it. She kept warning me of all the "bad" things that were going to happen and how i was probably going to be rushed for an emergency section and lose loads of blood etc. as it happened I had a 28 minute labour with no complications and Jacob and i were just fine.

Ive heard you are at higher risk of bleeding after i think its 4 or 5 babies, but ive never been told you are more likely to have a section?

the reason she said i would probably have a section is because my own doctor was trying to induce me because i live an hour away from the hospital and my previous labour was 45 mins. Babies head was very high so they could only give me the gel daily for 3 days they couldnt break my waters because there was a risk of babies head coming down on cord and stopping oxygen etc. So she said i was going to have to have a section for that reason. Thankfully she was wrong and i didnt have a section.

 

[3boys]

I forgot to say that yes you are right my chances of hemmoraging are increased and i did in fact hemmorage after my 4th but its still my decision to make and not hers.

 

[miss_kseniya]

Miss K, Tuesday will be here before you know it! Are you going by yourself? xx

I hope you do have twin boys, that would be lovely

My mum is coming with me thankfully, so will be nice bonding time for us. I'm quite excited and I think she is too as although she and dad have 1 grandchild and another on the way from my brother, their mum is only their DIL obviously so they are not quite as involved as her own mum is. I think it's quite exciting when it's your own daughter as you are a little more involved in everything instead of just being the MIL. Hope that makes sense without sounding awful or anything....my SIL is lovely and we're realy good friends, and obviously my folks love her and their grandchild.

 

[zowiey]

Miss K, how lovely, i'd love to take my mum to a scan.

I know exactly what you mean, my mil has 2 sons, and when we got married, I tried to involve her in as much as I could, but some things I just wanted my mum there. And I know it was the same for my sil. There's a saying isn't there " a daughters a daughter for life, a son is a son until he has a wife" or something like that anyway!

 

[Babycakes29]

Happy Easter everyone!!!!
Genie can you please update my due date to 13th. Ok ladies went for my emergency scan this morning and got to see my little bean with a flutter for heartbeat and she said everything looks perfect and little bean is measuring 13mm which shes put at 7+4 which corresponds perfectly with my LMP 6th feb. I'm so excited and will update with the pic as soon as I figure out how to do it on iPhone!!!xxxx

 

[miss_kseniya]

Thanks Zowiey, I am really excited to share the moment with my mum as OH will be at all the others and she didn't go to any of my SIL either. I've never heard that saying before either but it's so true!

Babycakes, how fab hun. Glad everything went well. Yay!