I had a real close TTC buddy who was 2 years older then me she got pregnant and we continued to be close throughout her pregnancy but it did really seem like she was rubbing it in my face that she was pregnant and I was not because all she wanted to talk about was the baby and telling me when her baby kicked and all which made me sad that I still was not pregnant. we eventually stopped talking and then I got a surprise BFP and wrote her about it only to be told that she did not want to talk to me anymore and did not want to hear about my TTC.
I lost that pregnancy a week later .her baby is now a toddler. and I am still TTC.
I had a real close TTC buddy who was 2 years older then me she got pregnant and we continued to be close throughout her pregnancy but it did really seem like she was rubbing it in my face that she was pregnant and I was not because all she wanted to talk about was the baby and telling me when her baby kicked and all which made me sad that I still was not pregnant. we eventually stopped talking and then I got a surprise BFP and wrote her about it only to be told that she did not want to talk to me anymore and did not want to hear about my TTC.
I lost that pregnancy a week later .her baby is now a toddler. and I am still TTC.
That's awful. I would never treat someone like that. My pregnant friends are keeping their distance and I'm grateful, but I think if I got back in touch they'd welcome me.
I had a real close TTC buddy who was 2 years older then me she got pregnant and we continued to be close throughout her pregnancy but it did really seem like she was rubbing it in my face that she was pregnant and I was not because all she wanted to talk about was the baby and telling me when her baby kicked and all which made me sad that I still was not pregnant. we eventually stopped talking and then I got a surprise BFP and wrote her about it only to be told that she did not want to talk to me anymore and did not want to hear about my TTC.
I lost that pregnancy a week later .her baby is now a toddler. and I am still TTC.
That's awful. I would never treat someone like that. My pregnant friends are keeping their distance and I'm grateful, but I think if I got back in touch they'd welcome me.
well to be completely honest she was mad and holding a grudge because I actually deleted her on facebook because it really made me mad when she was telling me she suddenly dident want her baby because her marriage was ending. .![]()
I've come up with a great excuse that I've deleted friends who are in town and kept those who are long distance that I need to keep up with...this means I delete most of flaunty preggos. It's worked well, haha. Gawd I hate Facebook for baby announcements.
I have 2 really close friends who have had babies but I'm still very close to. However, they have known me for over 15 years and know what to say and when to say it. I'm losing touch with two other friends who are pregnant because they're just too insensitive and flaunty.
You are not alone. I look at it like life's natural progression. When I got married I unfortunately lost a few good friends, single friends, because I didn't have much in common with them. I ended up closer to those who were married. This is just another step in life.
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