MImom2be
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So my husband and I have been discussing this, pretty much since we found out we were pregnant. What we are GOING to share and what we are keeping for a surprise.
We decided we'd share gender, and that when we did, family would be the FIRST to know, after that, close friends and then finally, we'd post about it on Facebook if we wanted to. It went over great, everyone found out when they were supposed to, in the order they were supposed to
However, his family is CONSTANTLY giving us all sorts of flack over us keeping the name secret until our baby girl is born. We've respectfully told them at LEAST 30 times now, "We put a lot of thought and time into choosing the names, and while we appreciate your desire to know what it is, we've chosen to keep this a surprise until she gets here."
It's really getting to the point of his family trying to bribe him (mind you, mine has fully respected our privacy) saying they'd take him out to meals, or buy something customized for the baby, "if only we knew her name" kind of crap.
Personally, I believe it is everyone's own prerogative if they choose to share gender/name during pregnancy or wait til the baby's born, I'm just curious if anyone else running into these problems with their family/significant other's family, and how did you handle it?
Thanks!
We decided we'd share gender, and that when we did, family would be the FIRST to know, after that, close friends and then finally, we'd post about it on Facebook if we wanted to. It went over great, everyone found out when they were supposed to, in the order they were supposed to
However, his family is CONSTANTLY giving us all sorts of flack over us keeping the name secret until our baby girl is born. We've respectfully told them at LEAST 30 times now, "We put a lot of thought and time into choosing the names, and while we appreciate your desire to know what it is, we've chosen to keep this a surprise until she gets here."
It's really getting to the point of his family trying to bribe him (mind you, mine has fully respected our privacy) saying they'd take him out to meals, or buy something customized for the baby, "if only we knew her name" kind of crap.
Personally, I believe it is everyone's own prerogative if they choose to share gender/name during pregnancy or wait til the baby's born, I'm just curious if anyone else running into these problems with their family/significant other's family, and how did you handle it?
Thanks!