Anyone else never having sex again!?

[tuppance]

Well, at least for a good couple of months more!

Just wondering if anyone else has completely lost their drive, or just me?

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[bluey]

You're definitely not alone on that one! Been ages since we DTD & I feel like I've forgotten how to get in the mood!

 

[tuppance]

Phew! Glad to know I'm not the only one out there! I've probably actually forgotten how to actually DTD let alone get in the mood

 

[xcharx]

Completely gone off sex... even considering buying horny goats weed to boost me sex drive x

 

[tardiz]

Nope i am 13 weeks pp and completely not interested. Poor oh

 

[tuppance]

It's good to know there are more people out there!

I thought maybe I was destined to become a nun!

 

[ready2bamum]

im 16 wks PP and cant be arsed....not interested, id much rather have a cuddle...poor OH, he got it for a whole week when i was trying to conceive, i fell pregnant on first try so then he didn't get it again until i wanted the little man (my baby..lol) out....coz i heard sex could start labour..it didn't of course...lol...

This is a real issue for me....my other half is really good looking (i think), and i love him to bits...but sex...i cant be bothered, not interested, not horny and i haven't been for a long long time....i worry about this alot, it was there before the baby and its still here now...i want to be a rampant sex pest but i am not unfortunately, i so wish i was...my fantasy is id like mine and my other halfs sex life to be like glen close and Michael douglas in fatal attraction...you know the kitchen counter scene.....lol...but it is not....

I get so jealous of women who have high sex drives and i wonder what the hell is wrong with me....i think i have issues???? or mabey coz im overweight? or mabey this just happens when youve been with the same guy for 7 years and you can have sex when you want it...????? who knows...??? i know when i met him i was a horny woman, but now i just cant be bothered....not even with myself (if you get my drift).

Does anyone else get this....absolutely no sex drive????? i worry my other half will leave me in the end coz he is rampant for it and i knock him back most times...poor love!!! he doesn't go on about it but i know that it bothers him alot...were only 35....xx

 

[Bellatrix]

My baby's almost a year old and I still can't be arsed!!
I have virtually no sex drive whatsoever. I think the fear of getting pregnant again puts me off most of the time!!

 

[madcatwoman]

same here!, im not in the mood,no drive,just not nterested,also its sore for me which doesnt help,i really dont like being fondled either,id rather a cuddle and sleep!

 

[Londonbump81]

I think this post has just saved my sanity. I had my little boy 15 weeks ago via emcs after 4 days of induction. I'm not sure whether it's because I still feel traumatised by the experience, because I have no feeling in my stomach, my stomach hangs 'apron' style or just because I'm absolutely knackered BUT I just have no desire to dtd. I feel awful for my OH and I'm unsure what to do about it. It's really getting me down

I'm glad I'm not the only one...is there hope for a revival ???

 

[T8ty]

ooo glad im not the only one.. i hate it i feel so mean.. i want too but really cannot be bothered.. sad times...

 

[Rmar]

Sometimes I avoid eye contact in case he gets the wrong idea...

 

[tiggerpony]

I wish I could have sex My sex drive is really high - I would have it every night if I could! But needing more surgery for my un healed 4th degree tear means It is going to be another 12 weeks or so before I can attempt it!

 

[braijackava]

Baby is almost 7 months, and I would be totally fine without it. I don't know why it is so different from the last babies. I think it is because I am having bad PPD. Also I had a tear by my clitoris that had to be stitched so I think that might have caused an issue. I have also lost a lot of weight which makes for lots of lose skin and not wanting hubby to see me. I hope it gets better. Poor hubby!

 

[Belle30]

Neither of us could be bothered for a good 6 months! It wasn't so much total lack of sex drive, but rather a preference for sleep...

 

[FEDup1981]

I came here searching for a thread like this. So glad im not the only one. I just cant face it, have no desire, and tho i have no pressure from DH i feel so bad. I cringe if he touches me incase he gets the wrong idea. I love him loads, but i do think its affecting our relationship.