Anyone else struggling with waiting this cycle??

[DSM]

Hi Guys,

I am having a very hard time waiting to ov this cycle, I know it's all in my head but I can't seem to help it, I'm either very happy or very sad!!!
spotting stopped at end of AF on CD6 & we've on CD7 x2, CD11 & Cd14 so far......trying for every 3 to 4days as i am prone to cystitis

I wish i could just have a shorter cycle, waiting 45-60days is Hell

I've taken Soy this cycle cd1 - cd5 to see if it helps, i'm doing OPK's to detect ov & I had blank sticks until last week when i had a test line show up very faint, then a little darker the next day & then faint again the day after that, now today it's disappeared again?? none of the lines were as dark as or darker than the control line - so i don't think i've ov'd.

I'm now on CD17 today & struggling, rant over sorry about that!!!!

What do you ladies do to keep your spirits up??

 

[Want2bemommy4]

I don't know I have complelty lost mine already this cycle. I am very angery. I even waited til late AF to retest. And everything is negitive. And she still isn't here. We had an issue where I had a BFP at 8 DPO than blood in ER was negitive at 10 DPO. Now, AF wont flipping show nor BFP. I'm totally pissed off and sad. . Sorry your OPK's are being a pain. Hopefully, you will ovulate real soon and get a nice BFP this month.

 

[baby_nurse]

Hey in the same boat! Last cycle for me was 44 days as recently off BC so not sure when the heck I'll OV this month!! Have also messed up my OPK as think I saw a real faint line but not sure what day it was as they are all mixed up in my draw...D'OH!! (I really need to start labelling them!) either way it was a negative though! I'm only CD 8 so pretty sure I won't ov yet...especially if my cycles is going to be 44 days again! OH also gets a bit jumpy if I want to BD every 5 mins as he is more in the NTNP camp (we only starting TTC a few months ago) and doesn't like the pressure of feeling we have to BD when I'm OV so I'm trying to BD lots but without making him feel like I'm just doing to have a baby...it's exhausting! Obv I'm not just using him for this as he is my husband but I get where he is coming from and doesn't want to turn into a baby making factory but it's difficult as when I ov I want to BD as much as possible! never mind rant over!

 

[DSM]

I don't know I have complelty lost mine already this cycle. I am very angery. I even waited til late AF to retest. And everything is negitive. And she still isn't here. We had an issue where I had a BFP at 8 DPO than blood in ER was negitive at 10 DPO. Now, AF wont flipping show nor BFP. I'm totally pissed off and sad. . Sorry your OPK's are being a pain. Hopefully, you will ovulate real soon and get a nice BFP this month.

Hey, Thanks for sharing your story with me, I really feel for you!! I thought I was 2weeks late last month & did about 5 tests, I'd never had a 60 day cycle til then nor knew they existed!!, I hope things work out for you soon, if you ever need to rant I'm here for you, It's nice to know there are people in difficult situations too, helps me put things into perspective xx

 

[DSM]

Hey in the same boat! Last cycle for me was 44 days as recently off BC so not sure when the heck I'll OV this month!! Have also messed up my OPK as think I saw a real faint line but not sure what day it was as they are all mixed up in my draw...D'OH!! (I really need to start labelling them!) either way it was a negative though! I'm only CD 8 so pretty sure I won't ov yet...especially if my cycles is going to be 44 days again! OH also gets a bit jumpy if I want to BD every 5 mins as he is more in the NTNP camp (we only starting TTC a few months ago) and doesn't like the pressure of feeling we have to BD when I'm OV so I'm trying to BD lots but without making him feel like I'm just doing to have a baby...it's exhausting! Obv I'm not just using him for this as he is my husband but I get where he is coming from and doesn't want to turn into a baby making factory but it's difficult as when I ov I want to BD as much as possible! never mind rant over!

Hey, Thanks for that it seems we are going through a similar stage to this ttc Lol, My OH is in the same camp as yours too, he thinks it will just happen!! I am beginning to think I'm not ov'ing at all, but who knows?? I know what you mean about the too, I'm trying to "encourage" it every 3/4 days this cycle, my OH just thinks my libido has increased, which it has in a way, some days I'm like - ok it's going to be this month............and other days I feel like it's going to take forever!! So after much thinking, a long dog walk & the gym today ,I've decided to tell myself every day how lucky I am to have what I have (lame I know!!) It would be nice to have a ttc Buddy, stay in touch if you like?