I was just wondering if there was anyone else on here in a similar position to me,
i had a miscarriage about 4 weeks ago now and even though i wasnt planning to get pregnant we were really happy about it and were devestated when i m/c at 11 weeks. As it wasnt planned we are now wtt until after we get married in may 2010. But im finding it really hard!! i really feel like i cant wait that long after getting into the idea that i was going to be a mum and looking forward to it i find it really hard to think i now have to wait at least 2 years till it will happen
its not that we are in a bad position to have a baby, we have our own place, we'v been together for 5 1/2 years and my partner has a very good job but we just feel it would be a more responsible thing to do and my partener still feels like he wants to buy himself things and go on holidays alone etc.
i do agree with him in some ways and i'am going to wait but i just wondered if there's anyone else out there who's in a similar position and knows how to get through it??
xxxxxx
i had a miscarriage about 4 weeks ago now and even though i wasnt planning to get pregnant we were really happy about it and were devestated when i m/c at 11 weeks. As it wasnt planned we are now wtt until after we get married in may 2010. But im finding it really hard!! i really feel like i cant wait that long after getting into the idea that i was going to be a mum and looking forward to it i find it really hard to think i now have to wait at least 2 years till it will happen
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i do agree with him in some ways and i'am going to wait but i just wondered if there's anyone else out there who's in a similar position and knows how to get through it??
xxxxxx