I don't have the best pregnancy photo, but hopefully it'll make you ladies feel better if I post a pic of myself when I was pregnant with DS2 and then what I looked like by several months after. Granted I never gained a TON of weight, but started at 125lbs with DS2 and was 151 at delivery. First photo was 5 days before he was born. Second photo is when DS2 was about 18mos and his brother exactly a yr older, but it's the only bikini photo I have that close to his birth. It's what I was back to about 3-4 months after he was born though and was the same after DS1 right when I got pregnant with DS2. Best shape of my life, even after 2 kids in 2 years! I had gotten WAY too skinny shortly after the 2nd photo was taken and ended up having to gain weight to get pregnant with baby #3. Needless to say I've struggled a bit with the body image thing too, as I think most women do. I know I bounce back well though, so I don't worry like I did when I was pregnant with DS1. It's all how you manage your diet and staying active after they're born. I didn't see the inside of a gym until this past yr when DS1 was just 4 and DS2 3yrs old due to DS2's Autism issues. I just stayed very active with my kids and ate healthy.