I am in Ontario and wondering if anyone knows how long a consent to adoption is good for? I have one signed in 2007 and havent been able to afford the full adoption yet, I want to do it now, will it still be valid? Will I have to find him in order to finish the process? My son is 9, I have full custody and the consent to adoption, and he hasn't seen him since he was 2 (other than running into him twice over the years)
I am not from Canada, but this is how it works in America, which I'd assume would be very similar to Canada:
Once a guy signs over his rights, there is not a "time limit". However, the faster the adoption process is done - the better in case bio father decides he changed his mind. He could get a lawyer and get it reversed before the adoption takes place. Saying now he is better suited to be a father, etc... That is why lawyers don't like mothers to take very long in between getting the father to terminate his rights voluntarily and the adoption process.
If it's like America, no, you will not need to deal with biological father once he signs over his rights. After bio daddy signs his rights over, he has done is part and he is no longer further needed in the adoption process because him signing over his rights is saying "I no longer want rights to the child", so he would have NO say in whoever adopts your children as the father. So, there is no need to search for him or get him involved at all after he signed.
The next step would be to hire a lawyer, which should be cheaper now that the "hard" part is over (getting bio dad to sign). In America, the next step would be for the lawyer to petition the court on your husbands behalf for your husband to legally adopt your son. The adoption hearing is usually quick and painless unless the judge sees your husband to be unfit of being the legal father. Please note, every area (even in America) has different rules: Have to be married for a certain amount of years, Adoptive father has to be a certain amount of years older, etc...
Where I am from, my husband and I only needed to be married for a year, and he had to be (and is) at least 10 years older than the children he was adopting. I know some places here in America, the marriage is a little longer in years.
Some places also require a "home-study", for step-parent adoptions. Someone comes to your home and sees if it's fit. Where I live however, that is not needed to step-parent adoptions.
The only thing you will need to make sure is that your husband has no criminal history in any kind of sexual or domestic abuse, etc... They will run a background check on him. Keep note that not EVERY kind of crime will barr him from adopting your son, only the more "serious" ones.
Your next step is to contact a lawyer, and see how much the next process would be.
Good Luck,
SLCMommy