Anyone located in New York? Or East End of Long Island?

[Livebythesea]

I am trying to find some moms in the area because I'm a FTM and an old bag at 40...and the only one of my friends with a baby. I feel like I do not know what I am doing sometimes, or what I should be doing with him in terms of his development. So just looking for other moms and I am having trouble finding any groups in my area. I live on the East End of Long Island (Hamptons).

Thanks!