Hi Titi!
Just wanted to pop in and share my experience with you. I got married young, (and divorced too lol) but me and my ex husband tried for 5 years with no luck. We didn’t have the money for in vitro at the time and nothing else was working. Finally we parted ways and I had been told by doctors I wouldn’t be able to conceive naturally and I would need medications, fertility treatments and possibly in vitro. Well, I never used protection in any long term relationship after that as I didn’t think I could get pregnant. I met the man of my dreams in December of 2009 and we married in April of 2011. We thought we would wait until we were 30 to try all the treatments and what not, as we wanted a little time to adjust and to just try to do it on our own. We weren’t charting or counting anything as my cycle hadn’t been regular in 15 years.
My doctor had given me Provera to jump start my period as I didn’t want to take birth control. Well, I had been taking provera on and off for ten years – but I always took a pregnancy test before I took it, just in case. Well, 10 years worth of Provera and probably 100 negative tests later, it was routine. I couldn’t figure out why I was over a month late for my period, bloated, and was not losing the weight I was trying to. Well, when that test showed two lines, I was literally in shock. We thought I was 8 weeks going by LMP – but I was only 4, and the doc was not optimistic at all and kind of nasty. BUT – everything has been great so far and I am almost 11 weeks with our miracle baby! Me and the hubby are ecstatic about not needing any medication or treatments to get here. The only thing I changed was cutting out refined carbohydrates in my diet and following an Atkins approach to life.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you!