anita665
Mum of 2 & expecting 3rd
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So this is my third baby, due in 3 weeks. My first was a normal, drug free hospital birth but two weeks to the day later I started bleeding very heavily and they called it a delayed or secondary PPH.
My second was born at home, unplanned. He came very quickly and was delivered by paramedics. Once he was out we had to wait over an hour for the midwife so we could deliver the placenta which they weren't allowed to touch. It was a scary moment, waiting to see what would happen but nothing did. My bleeding afterwards was fine. Much lighter the whole time than I'd had with my first.
This time I would love a home birth. After having #2 at home I've realised what a great experience it is. I did even want an unassisted birth but I've been scared out of that by the midwife and doctors constant talk of being high risk due to the PPH.
I'm seeing a consultant tomorrow to talk about whether he thinks a home birth is really a good idea and I'm just so freaked out by it. Previously I'd been calm, thinking the odds of it happening again and more damatically are slim but now I can't get it out of my head.
Problem is the hospital is 45 mins away on a very good day.
Has anyone else had a homebirth after a PPH? What really are the odds of it happening again?
My second was born at home, unplanned. He came very quickly and was delivered by paramedics. Once he was out we had to wait over an hour for the midwife so we could deliver the placenta which they weren't allowed to touch. It was a scary moment, waiting to see what would happen but nothing did. My bleeding afterwards was fine. Much lighter the whole time than I'd had with my first.
This time I would love a home birth. After having #2 at home I've realised what a great experience it is. I did even want an unassisted birth but I've been scared out of that by the midwife and doctors constant talk of being high risk due to the PPH.
I'm seeing a consultant tomorrow to talk about whether he thinks a home birth is really a good idea and I'm just so freaked out by it. Previously I'd been calm, thinking the odds of it happening again and more damatically are slim but now I can't get it out of my head.
Problem is the hospital is 45 mins away on a very good day.
Has anyone else had a homebirth after a PPH? What really are the odds of it happening again?