Anyone Single & Pregnant

[mommy2be412]

I think one of the worst things to hear is to get an abortion from baby's father. He has turned into a monster and needless to say we are no longer together. I am 10.1 weeks pregnant and emotionally I don't know how I'm going to do it. I have very little support around me. Anyone else in a similar situation? Let's support each other. hugs

 

[Feff]

I'm in this position too, my baby's dad told me I should 'put it up for adoption because we're too young for a kid' then he changed his mind and said 'well I can't let you look after it on your own can I' turns out he can lol! I'm sort of glad he's not around, he's a waste of space (drugs, drinking, just really childish) and I know that with the amount of support I have I can do it on my own I hope your family/friends start supporting you soon x

 

[whatwillbe]

I split from fob when I was 5 weeks pregnant, he too was horrible, wouldn't have anything to do with me even though we planned this baby, I never thought I'd get through it or over it, but I did and I love having her to myself, fob still hasn't seen her and it's just made me see him for his true colours, you will get through it, just try to stay positive for you and baby x

 

[TinkCee]

Yup, im in the same postion.

Im 26 weeks pregnant. I am due in May, I have been alone since I was about 14 weeks.
Emotionally only since I got pregnant but he physically left the picture at 14 weeks.

Its tough at first. No lie.
So many doubts and "what if's" but theres tons of support every where. Seek and u shall find

Im sorry he was such a douche, but hes not the only one... Theres other men like him and thats where super powerful women decide to raise a child on their own. And we are just the ones given extra power.
I hope your able to be open with more friends and family. Thats where.your main source of support comes from. And of course, from other women in your shoes

 

[exoticsiren]

Same here. Im w my oh but im trying to get rid of him.. I want him out of my life.. Abusive n controlling.. Im so over him.. Ill b posting soon newly single hopefully! Pm if u wanna talk.

 

[Becky61]

Hi,
I split up with my babys dad when i was just 6 weeks pregnant. It was the hardest 9 months of my life, i thought i would face homeless-ness, my family couldnt accept it, my friends thought i was making the wrong choice keeping the baby and i knew i didnt have the financial security. I was so low.
My boy is now 4 weeks old. Its the best thing i ever did, its been the making of me, a new begining.
I just wanna say, dont stress, think of that life growing inside you, try and enjoy pregnancy, its a magical time. Its so worth it, you can do this.
It all comes together eventually and youll never look back.
X

 

[teal]

I had a horrible ex and he wanted me to terminate as soon as I told him I was pregnant. I've not seen him since before I found out I was pregnant (I told him over the phone) and my son will be three next month. As Becky said it all does come together x

 

[holdontohope]

I'm single and pregnant also. Although I chose this path.... There have still been moments that are hard and lonely no matter how much support you have from family and friends (which I have and overwhelming amount of support thankfully). This is my first Valentiens Day single in 5 years. And I felt sad about the thought... Until today because I realized now I will have a Valentine for the rest of my life