This is a timely post for me!! Whenever I am about to ask a question on b and b, someone else is one step ahead! I'm just thinking of combination feeding, as I'm already topping up, LO had some weight issues. That's resolving but the breastfeeding is still so painful, despite my latch being checked, lo is still squashing my nipples beyond recognition and I'm hating how long it takes to feed her, being uncomfortable all the way through. Also, there are some places I wouldn't be comfortable feeding, and some people I would rather not feed in front of so I'm restricted.
The worst thing for me is the dread I feel before every feed. Sometimes I just cry. I want to bf, but it's proving so difficult and I'm not enjoying the first few weeks of my baby's life, that I can never have again. I literally hate bf'ing.
yet I've tried everything I can think of, and everything I've been advised.
With dd I breastfed for 2 weeks and then ff. I was only young and had no support, was really hoping to succeed this time but despite support from my oh, midwives and infant feeding advisors, plus b&b, I'm just reaching the end of my tether. I think what tipped it for me was someone telling me they didn't enjoy their baby until they were 3 months, when they got more interaction from them and felt less like a milk machine. I just thought, I don't want to feel like this for the first 3 months of my baby's life!
So, my question would be, does anyone do both, and how does it affect your supply?
I don't want to stop totally, in case I regret it, and because I still want lo to benefit as much as I can manage. Maybe an option for Lulusmummy?
In answer to the original questions, dd was more windy, but it didn't affect her loads. The bottles are a faff, but if you are shy in public, much better for feeding and also having a life outside the home. Also, other ppl can feed, dd in my case and oh / babysitters.
Dd also slept more at night and feeds were miraculously shorter, plus no pain = less stress. I prefer ff for those reasons, but I don't want to do it exclusively if I can do a bit of both! Sigh....