anyone want support ttc straight after mc

[2nd time]

Hi

I doht want to have to start this thread as I know noone wants to be in this situation, but somenof us are andni hope we can support each other in the quest for a rainbow.

I have had 4 healthy pregnanvies and juet knew somthing wad wrong with number 5 we lost our bean around sat 3rd of may. I told dh I wanted to start to try again so here we go in our quest for a rainbow

 

[Kians_Mummy]

Hi there sorry for your loss.
We are trying for our rainbow just 17 days after medical management of miscarriage. We started 4-5 days ago. I thought everything was running smoothly but when I went for my 12 week scan (@ 13 weeks) there was a sac and placenta measuring to date but no baby, it had stopped growing early on (around 5-6 weeks) but the pregnancy still progressed.

I really want to be pregnant before my due date as I think it will make it a little easier especially with my brothers baby being due a week after! x

 

[Angels4]

Hi,

Yes I would love some support...

TTC baby number 6 after 5 miscarriages in the last 3 years. Going by my numbers I don't have a little baby yet

Not sure what I should do or feel.

Just really nervous...

Any advice would be great.

angels

 

[Bdaysurprise]

Hi Angels and kians_mummy,

I would love to join your group. I recently had a chemical/early miscarriage last Friday, it was the first month my BF and I TTC and I got a BFP on the 16/5/14 but later that night I had extremely painful and heavy bleeding. Not sure how to feel, but im optimistic to try again. Sorry to hear about both of your losses.. but I must commend you both for taking the emotional risk to try again. I would love to support/chat with you guys as you are going through your journeys. As for me, Im not sure whether to start trying again so soon. How long after an mc can you try? I hope you both conceive your rainbow babies

 

[Angels4]

Thankyou xo

Yes it is extremely hard but we need to keep positive!

My doc has told me to wait at least 3 cycles everytime I have had a m/c as it gives you time to heal both physically and mentally. .

Lately I've tried doing acupuncture as they can help strengthen the uterus so the baby sticks.

Hopefully it works!!!

Best wishes for your next TTC period. Will be oraying for you!

Angels

 

[Ladybirdgb]

I had a miscarriage on the 17th may I just want to be pregnant again its all I can think about. So I am being proactive and have started tracking my ovulation dates, and just in case I plan although my hubby does not now this but I don't think he will complain we will be dtd every three/ four days. I find it hard sometimes to feel positive but I just guess the loss is still fresh. I was (or so I thought ) nearly 3 months gone.

 

[kaysbc]

Hi all,
would love to join this group and help support each other.
I've finally just stopped bleeding from my MC and I'm super anxious/eager/scared about TTC, but I want to try again right away. Because of my age I feel like I don't have time to waste.

Every day has ups and downs. Some days I'm totally normal and other days I'm in a super dark pit of sadness. How are you all holding up, dealing with the sadness?

 

[Ladybirdgb]

kaysbc I am the same some days I will gladly just not see anyone and don't really want to communicate. Its hard and very fresh in my mind at the moment having only happened 2 weeks ago and all that people ask at the moment is how are you are you ok. I don't feel that I can actually say to some one well really I just want to sit here cry my eyes out and not speak to anyone. I would love to reply to someone in my normally sarky way oh im having a ball partying every night!!!! But no im totally polite and just say yeah im fine.

My positive is that im trying again im being proactive and doing what I feel is right for me I want a baby soooo much I had concerns before but now I know with all my heart I want a baby and im going to have one come hell or high water

Hope your well today everyone to you all

 

[JessicaAnne]

Hello ladies.

I'm sorry we're all here in this situations, our little angels certainly flew high.

I lost our little jellybean on the 13th of May. I apparently ov'ed yesterday so it's just a waiting game now...

It will be baby number 4 for me, baby number 1 for OH. Although he doesn treat mine as his own

Here's hoping we all have good news around testing time

 

[kaysbc]

I just had my Hcg tested today and it was way down at 197. Two weeks ago it was still in the 4600 range. I hope that by next week it gets down to zero so I can start over.

Does anyone know, if getting hcg down to zero triggers you to have a normal period, or if my next period can really just happen any time, and I just need to wait and see.
??

 

[celine]

Hi ladies m here to offer soem hope, yesterday was a year ago i found out i was pregnant, i lost that bean at 7 weeks conceived again just three weeks later and lost that one as a mmc at round 10 weeka, conceived again before af and im 35 weeks along today.
Being pregnant on my previous edd did help but a peice of my heart will always remember. My mw do assure me that it was only bad luck that i suffered the mmc right after the mc and had nothing to do with not wwiting on af.

 

[Katy78]

Hi ladies. I'd like to join you.
I had s miscarriage on 13 May, at 6 weeks. I have a son who is 14 months, he's my miracle. Now I'm hoping for another miracle. I'm ovulating today, AF's due on 10 June. I have high FSH so my chances are low but I did manage to get pregnant twice so why not again...
Hoping we all get our rainbows soon.

 

[Ladybirdgb]

We will have those rainbow babies soon kay I think hcg has to be low to ov I have tested myself with a pregnancy test and checked that it came up negative before starting the whole ov test thing xxxxxxx

 

[Katy78]

kaysbc, I can tell you how it was in my case. It all depends of how far along you are, if there is any tissue left in your uterus, etc.
I lost my baby at 6 weeks, there was a sack measuring only 5 weeks. After the m/c I bled for 6 days. I tested with an ultra sensitive HPT a day later and it was already a squinter. So around 10mIU/ml. In the end it was like a normal cycle, I ovulated 16 days after the m/c.

 

[Bug222]

hi ladies, id love to join you.

I had a MMC earlier this month. I went for a routine scan and was told there was no heartbeat. I should have been 8+6 but baby was only measuring 7 weeks. I Didn't miscarry until almost a week later at 9+5 after taking Cytotec to get things started.

I want to start trying again right away but am terrified!