Oh and he can't breastfeed, apparently. Shame.
Glad it's not just mine who uses that excuse
Seriously though, my OH has been great. I know they're not "AP" but along the natural parenting lines...he was very into the idea of cloth nappies as soon as i mentioned them (i think before i was even pregnant i chatted to him about them
) And when i was about 15 weeks pregnant we went along to the babyshow and did loads of research into them and bought the first of our stash (and he paid, if i remember correctly
) along with a bubzilla sling (which we have yet to use succesfully but that's another story)
He isn't keen on our close baby carrier because he thinks it is faffy but does like the idea of babywearing in principle.
He is very supportive of me breastfeeding and delaying weaning until we think Toby is ready, and we're both interested in doing BLW.
We co sleep and although i don't think it would be his first choice of sleeping arrangement, he doesn't complain...although having said that he has been working nights since new year but is back on day shifts next week so may get a shock when he is sharing with me and Toby every single night and fully realises how much space our (not so little anymore) guy takes up when he's asleep
I find your point interesting purplesocks, re: would OH have been an AP daddy if he'd become a daddy with someone else? I think probably mine would, as he is sort of naturally inclined towards that kind of...well 'natural' way of doing things, very laid back and easy going, a psych graduate so appreciates my ramblings on AP leading to more securely attached children etc. I guess you can never know how things would be in an alternate universe though hey?
But getting back to this universe... he's a brill daddy to Toby and we agree pretty much 100% on most of our parenting choices so far (yay!)