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Flipsy
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i have a feeling i'll spend the rest of my pregnancy arguing with my mother .. sigh how is it possible to assert my position as mother of this child when my own mother thinks I'm being fussy??
told her that my fella and I bought a travel cot (I collect it tomorrow) and she pipes up wiht but we're getting a cot for here .. my response where you gonna put it .. oh we can put it up when baby here and take it down when baby not here!!!! am I the only one who thinks this is a reallllly bad idea apart from teh fact it will be second hand actually think its about third hand already... isn't putting it up and down all the time going to weaken the structure??
Why isn't it enough to say i'd really rather you didn't do that . . without getting the "don't you trust us" argument from them
told her that my fella and I bought a travel cot (I collect it tomorrow) and she pipes up wiht but we're getting a cot for here .. my response where you gonna put it .. oh we can put it up when baby here and take it down when baby not here!!!! am I the only one who thinks this is a reallllly bad idea apart from teh fact it will be second hand actually think its about third hand already... isn't putting it up and down all the time going to weaken the structure??
Why isn't it enough to say i'd really rather you didn't do that . . without getting the "don't you trust us" argument from them