arsehole!!!!!

[Mummy&bump]

im sorry girls this is more of a rant than anything! well sum of u already kno but i havnt heard 4m my ex since i was .....6 weeks pregnant! hes made it very clear he wants nothing 2 do with my baby even tho we were tryin 4 15mnths for my little miracle! and now im sitting here 30 weeks pregnant on my own (lost alot of friends through the Pr***) and i am seriously struggling to get everyhtin my baby needs as i only work part time as i had anxiety n depression coz of him b4 i fell pregnant so i barely hav enough money 2 support myself and im not entitled to income support so i cant even get the £500 mat grant! and well jus to top it all off( i kno this is really petty) i was in the car with my mum yest and he went flying by me on his bike with another fffffin girl on the back and hes only went and bought her the exact same bloody bike helmet he bought me i mean where does he get off doin tht, i kno its only a helmet but shes right where i was! thts the 1st if clamped my eyes on him since we split but
that has jus really pissed me off! he was an abusive f##k whitt n now im the 1 being punished and for wat????
dont get me wrong my mum has been amasing and even bought my pram which wasnt cheap and shes been buyin him lots of things when she can!!!

ahhh im sorry girls i jus really dnt kno wat to do with myself!

xxx

 

[Alexas Mommy]

 

[v2007]

Im sorry, he does sound a rite knobface!!!! Dont worry bout him, you concentrate on your LO.

When your LO is born and you submit your claim for Child Tax credit, i do think you will be able to claim the £500 SSMG

If your not you shud be entitled to the £190 PIHCG which will help get you a few bits n pieces.

V xxx

 

[brownhairedmom]

 

[xXDonnaXx]

What an ass!

Stuff him & the girl! You've got a lovely baby boy cooking in there, who'll bring you lots and lots of happiness! Don't let him win! You deserve better.

 

[Naya69]

i think the mat grant has gone up now to £700 but dont quote me on that but you will defo get it my friend wasnt on income surport but tax credits and she still got it and everyones entitled to tax credits so dont worry about that chick but i would put your claim in now the reason why is .....

i put mine in early and it came back as rejected because i wasnt on the right benefits so then when the baby was born and i was on the right benefits all i had to do was phone them up tell them iam on tax credis and it was deposited into my bank the next day so that way i wasnt waiting weeks for it to go through.

and about your ex stuff him youve got something so presious growing inside you something thats gonna bring you so much happyness a lot more than what he will be getting

and if you want cheap baby things look on ebay i get a lot of things off there its so good for single mummys whos ex wont pay up i hope everything gets better for you xxx

 

[Mummy&bump]

thank you girls for all ur lovely comments i dnt even kno y i let it bother me its on a god damn helmet right?? looked better on me anyway bitch!!! oo i really shudnt b tht mean its not her fault!
us feel stuck at a loose end on 30 weeks n want this baby out already (obv not coz i kno hed b sick but if there was sumway of him comin out full term by god id do makes me crazy these hormones lol!!

thanks for tht info naya69 i wonder if tht will b the same here in glasgow! i will this form sent in infact il fill it out right now!

so what do uz think i shud i do now, do i send him an email lettin him kno tht im now 30 weeks and baby is fine and wud he wanna kno wen hes here or wat? i jus dunno wat wud b the right thing anymore, hav i tried enough for my baby???

xxx

 

[xarlenex]

If anything I'd try maybe one email/text. Dont appear clingy or that you care too much. Simply ask if he wants to know when the baby is born. Let him know this is the one last time you're going to ask, if he doesn't get back to you, I wouldn't try anymore.
Hope he gets his ass in gear for babas sake

 

[xXDonnaXx]

I wouldn't tell him anything. I'd ask him if he wants to know when the baby's here. But that is all. If he cared,he'd ask hiself. You shouldn't make all the effort hun,let him do some work. He's just as much his as he is yours. So he's got to be a dad and take responsibilities. I:e,Buying things,Giving you money weekly,etc.

I chose to tell the father that Lexie was born. I sent him some pictures over msn and that is all he has seen/heard about her. He didn't ask to see her,didn't offer money,didn't ask if she was ok. Etc! He acted as if she wasn't his! So I foofed him off and now we have nil contact. Thank the lord! Lol.

 

[Mummy&bump]

jees he didnt even ask how ur wee one was donna tht was nice of him, its usually jus manners 2 ask how a bubba is never mind 4m the father!!

i jus dnt kno wat il even say 2 b honest n if he dnt reply il get raggin and if he does reply it might jus b yet another abusive email so i think wats the point! but then i dnt want the wee man 2 then grow up thinkin i never dun anythin

xxx

 

[Jkelmum]

Soon as baby is here reapply for the 500 mat grant as u will be in the higher rate if child tax credits so should get it ...forget the tosser u and your baby are so much better off without him xxx

 

[Sam P]

legalise killing men!