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Right well... i've always had this thing for older men... 
And i met this guy called Adam a couple of months ago in starbucks. He's a good friend of my uncle. My uncle is awesome and is like a mate to me. He has MS and because of it lives every day to the full and he is just amazing, took me to a concert the other week and got me to go backstage to meet the lead singer (was awesome) anyway, his mate is very similar to him. Though when i saw him i imagined he was in his 30's (and everyone whose seen him has agreed he looks mid-30s so he doesn't look like an old man lol)
Anyway, we met and got on really well and chatted about loads of things and he played with Bella and it was nice
I asked my uncle if he had said anything about me and he said that i was really nice but too young. Fair enough.
Then we saw each other again last week as my uncle threw a halloween party (those who have facebook might be able to spot him in the pictures!) and we chatted (while i wore a banana costume
) and again got on really well, then i gave him a lift home as he lives down the road from me.
Now today we threw Bellas Birthday Party, and Adam had given my uncle a card for Bella which had a nice message inside and a tenner - which was so sweet of him! So my uncle gave me his number so i could say thank you, which i did. Just got a text back saying you're welcome, glad you've had a good day. I was wondering if you would like to go out to Dinner with me, text or call me, Adam x
Ahhhh! I dunno what to do. I mean, i think he's lovely, and we get on great and never stuck for conversation.
But he's almost 50! (not quite yet) Is there any point in going for a meal? I mean, yeah, i'd get a free meal and nice conversation etc - but nothing could ever happen, let's face it, he's older than my dad!! It's just a bit weird for me. I've always gotten on with older people, i'd probably of gone out with my undle if my aunt hadnt gotten to him first! Lol. And once upon a time i might have gone for it... but now days i want something real, something special and solid. Not a bit of a laugh with a guy more than twice my age just for the giggles.
So, should i go out with him or not? Or is it just too weird?
And i met this guy called Adam a couple of months ago in starbucks. He's a good friend of my uncle. My uncle is awesome and is like a mate to me. He has MS and because of it lives every day to the full and he is just amazing, took me to a concert the other week and got me to go backstage to meet the lead singer (was awesome) anyway, his mate is very similar to him. Though when i saw him i imagined he was in his 30's (and everyone whose seen him has agreed he looks mid-30s so he doesn't look like an old man lol)
Anyway, we met and got on really well and chatted about loads of things and he played with Bella and it was nice
I asked my uncle if he had said anything about me and he said that i was really nice but too young. Fair enough.
Then we saw each other again last week as my uncle threw a halloween party (those who have facebook might be able to spot him in the pictures!) and we chatted (while i wore a banana costume
) and again got on really well, then i gave him a lift home as he lives down the road from me.Now today we threw Bellas Birthday Party, and Adam had given my uncle a card for Bella which had a nice message inside and a tenner - which was so sweet of him! So my uncle gave me his number so i could say thank you, which i did. Just got a text back saying you're welcome, glad you've had a good day. I was wondering if you would like to go out to Dinner with me, text or call me, Adam x
Ahhhh! I dunno what to do. I mean, i think he's lovely, and we get on great and never stuck for conversation.
But he's almost 50! (not quite yet) Is there any point in going for a meal? I mean, yeah, i'd get a free meal and nice conversation etc - but nothing could ever happen, let's face it, he's older than my dad!! It's just a bit weird for me. I've always gotten on with older people, i'd probably of gone out with my undle if my aunt hadnt gotten to him first! Lol. And once upon a time i might have gone for it... but now days i want something real, something special and solid. Not a bit of a laugh with a guy more than twice my age just for the giggles.
So, should i go out with him or not? Or is it just too weird?
Deffo doesn't look 50 from the pic.
