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So I got told by a friend who I hadn't seen in a while that (while looking at my pictures that I posted of my bump) I didn't even look pregnant. I looked normal. wow... I wanted to cry sooo bad. :cry::cry: It's like, ummm no I wasn't in like a size 11-12 before, my belly button wasn't disappearing, and I looked hot in a bikini. Screw you. Sorry I needed to rant.
 
Ahhh i know this doesn't help, but a couple of weeks ago i would of loved hearing someone say 'you don't even look pregnant' had a right miserable period where i just felt really fat and got p**sed off with everyone saying how big i was lol :)
 
Don't worry about it hun, I had that because I didn't even have a bump until I was 26 weeks.
Just ignore them, I don't see why people say mean things like that :hugs:
 
ALSO: can i just add that maybe your friend was trying to be polite. Suddenly having permission to call a woman 'big' is quite weird to some people, and your friend may of not wanted to offend you by saying 'wow your so huge' just in case ? :shrug: just a guess :)
 
Yea, I guess so but I'm proud of my bump and I would rather be told that I look farther along than I am than told I don't look pregnant I just look fat. ya know? I don't know men are stupid.
 
ALSO: can i just add that maybe your friend was trying to be polite. Suddenly having permission to call a woman 'big' is quite weird to some people, and your friend may of not wanted to offend you by saying 'wow your so huge' just in case ? :shrug: just a guess :)

Yeah, I think she was maybe trying to be nice but didnt know how to say "wow your so big!" in a nice way? :shrug:
 
Girl pay her no mind..I was your size now when I delivered my daughter by csaection. I didn't care what people thought cuz my bump was so small. she was healthy and the dr said my abs were so strong they wouldnt stretch any more so they took her out a lil after 37 weeks..Different folk different strokes..And she is so fun and naughty too lol..
 
I agree with the other girls, your friend might have just been saying what they thought you wanted to hear.. men definitely don't think these things through :haha: x
 
My hairdressing assistant told me my face looked fat last week. I'm gonna go in a rip her to bits once i've had my baby cause she's less pregnant that me and I'm gonna show her how it feels to be made to feel that insecure.
 
Uv got a long way to go yet, make the most of not looking pregnant lol.
Ur bump is lovely, some people just dont get it
xx
 
Yep you've still got a while to go. I've gotten quite a bit bigger just in the past few weeks.

Heres 22 weeks vs 26 weeks.
https://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs088.ash2/37749_138338622860835_100000540943454_295800_4669892_n.jpg

and

https://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs112.snc4/35982_145958612098836_100000540943454_335902_1243538_n.jpg

and i'm looking more pregnant every week. So don't worry about peoples little comments. Just think, in a few weeks, you'll be way bigger.
 

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