wow what an amazing story thank you for sharing it! i´m having a home water birth in August but im really not very clued up about it so this has helped me loads, especially thinking about checking the babies sex myself, or at least making sure that its my boyfriend that does that, i´d never even thought about those things! thank you
Thanks! This is why a plan is important, I think. You might have to be flexible on the day and wing it a bit, if you write down your preferences beforehand then you have more chance of them happening, I think... Things can be too intense/move too quickly for you to be able to make your wants clear on the actual day, and it;s not like you can just go back and re-do, ya know?