Attempt Vbac Natural section birth plan help!

[youngwife20]

Hi ladies I am hoping to have a vbac.

here are a few point:

I want to mention that i would like to attempted a vbac and avoid hormone drips. and i would like to labour for awhile and if i dont progress between a certian time then go for a section ( within how much time should i say? as i was in labour 48 hours before i had an emc dont wanna wait that long)

also i want a natural section : what are the points about this to mention in my birthplan?

ie hubby cutting chord.
skin to skin
using something underneath the blood preasure cuff to reduce risk of infection
no talking during section ( as last time there was so much talk about what therre gonna have to eat so much laughing etc i had to tell them to be quiet as i was scared shittles! AND I WANted my daughter to come into the world in a peaceful cam quiet enviroment.

what else??

thanks ladies i need some help as im 13 weeks and i am presenting my birthplan to my consultant at 20 weeks/

i really wanna take control over my labour this time round.

and have a peacefull labour however it turns out

 

[aliss]

Have you seen thisÉ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5RIcaK98Yg

 

[Dee_H]

Thank you so much for sharing this video. My doc is highly recommending a C-Section again this time around. This is exactly what I would love to have happen. I am going to discuss this my next visit.

 

[youngwife20]

thanks alis. i have but i dont know what to write about the vbac part xx

 

[chuck]

Pop into the VBAC section in y siggy hun theres a load of VBAC info and a few mums around to talk to you.

For my VBAC (planned HBAC),

No constant monitoring
No cannula
No vaginal exams unless requested
No offering pain relief other that GnA
Allow me to labour without time limit unless I or the baby become distressed
Allow me to move freely
I will eat and drink freely

I laboured at home, called the MW when ctx were 3 mins apart and lasted 1 min at least. She arrived we had a chat prepped the room (put down a shower curtain and towels etc) she asked if i wanted a VE...I was 8cm!!

I laboured a couple more hours, my had a little gas and air my water s broke and I laboured a littel longer no urge to push much yet...had another VE and i was 10cm but baby was back to back now (little git) and I was bleeding a fair bit sowe went into hospital.

I was put in a bright room, on my back and fussed with - cannula and monitor ERGH, I was too far in labour land to argue so they did it anyway (lets just say although my husband was there he wasn't doing anything so he didnt ensure my plan was stuck to)

Put in stirrups - I didn't actually say no but they did it anyway and I couldnt move...but I got my VBAC no problems I wanted delayed clamping but they insisted I didnt because of the bleeding I made them wait a minute or two though - AGAIN if I'd had a birth partner it would have been different.

 

[youngwife20]

aww gosh that sounds really not good!im glad you got your vbac i have popped in there but i find it way to overwelming theres too much to read and im not good at taking it al in when theres too much.
I dont mind abotu canula and i dont wanna eat or drink incase i need another emc. but i would like to walk around so maybe checked every now and again and i will mention the DONT OFFER MEDS as i could hear people saying " get the anas whatever shel need an epidural .." i never asked for one but i alredy felt defeated and gave in xx thank u!

 

[ickles4]

That video is great. That was nothing like mine. They forgot to get my partner in so he came in as baby was being lifted out of me, I had no initial skin to skin, and while I was being stitched they sent my partner off to another room for 20 minutes and they never lowered the screen. I did successfully breast feed but would have loved it to have been like the video showed, it really felt like an operation.

 

[babybambi2011]

im going for my growth scan and consultant meeting tomorrow and im going for a natural csection too. this is the only way that i will have another csection. im sure she wont say no, but its not her doing the operation so i cant be 100% sure ill get what i want.... but il be int he right mind phrame to demand what i want.

 

[youngwife20]

iickles- cant believe they forgot to get your partner thats awful!!

 

[youngwife20]

bamb- ur babys due day before my bday lol - when did they book ur section? have you written your birhplan? hope u get what u want xx