I am all day sick....so tired....eating only toast....have a pretty noticeable bump (baby #3), but yet I still feel like this is not happening. I can't get excited and can't get past my previous loss. I have a scan on Tuesday, and I am so nervous. I have had 2 healthy pregnancies, but that one loss has left me totally scared and shaken.
Sorry to be such a downer, but is anyone else struggling?? I find my anxiety is awful right now.
I'm was in the exact same boat... even with our two little ones, the loss we had last year had me extra nervous about our scan... when I went to the hospital with that pain and they said they were going to do a dating scan. I was excited, but when when I finally got in that room, I was ready to burst into tears. I didn't think I could handle any bad news, but the tech turned the screen to me and smiled and said everything was just fine

She said she was surprised that I even worried because of how sick I was feeling.
If you're miserable, then the pregnancy is going well ^_^ I have high hopes your scan is going to turn out just perfect ^_^
If you're having no symptoms, your pregnancy could be going well too so it's hard to tell sometimes, but if you have symptoms, I'd definately say things are going well ^_^
With my daughter, I didn't have the sickness, but was I so tired all the time and hungry... I even had a little bit of bleeding myself but she's a healthy 7 year old now lol
With my son I had no symptoms, at least no obvious ones like morning sickness or tired all the time, (I was forced to work over 60 hours during my first trimester since I worked for AT&T and we got our positive when the iPhone 3GS was released so we had mandatory overtime.., I simply had no time to sleep no matter how much I wanted it lol

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With the morning sickness, I'd ask your doctor for some Zolfrin... when I was at the hospital, they asked if I was getting sick a lot, I told them 'Well, yes, but I'm pregnant, I kind of expect it" lol I didn't think they could do anything for it, but they gave me an IV and gave me anti-nausea medication, Zolfrin. I felt amazing, best I'd felt in weeks, they gave me a prescription for it upon the discharge and said it is the safest most common medication given to pregnant women with really bad morning sickness. It's one tablet that melts on your tongue, kind of tastes like cherry, and the nausea is just gone!
I even asked the pharmacist how 'safe' it was for pregnancy because the last thing I want to do is hurt the little one, and he said there is no risk at all, none. I know this prescription is going to run out in a week, hopefully the nausea will stop by then, but if it doesn't I'm going to ask my OB to continue it.
Also, Congrats to all the new

s!! H&H 9 Months!! ^_^