August Testers - Over 35

[sumatwsimit]

happymamma, i want to give you a big hug , it's been a tough day and im really sorry this has happened. you are gonna stick around though hun, like llbean said we're heading for the same goal, and in it together for all the highs and lows. x

 

[happymamma]

And there you are, the amazing ladies, I knew you were here! Thank you for the support, the whole reason I came here You're awesome and I hope the best for you. I'm a strong believer in karma, you are good people and good things will happen to you! Stay strong! I'm going to miss you girls, I plan on keeping it low right now to avoid anymore negativity. PM's are welcome, unless it's to bully, then I won't even give it the time to read. I'll be around, just plan to keep to myself. Just the odd comment to support (at least that will be my intention, still) That way I can avoid kwim? Yes I feel attacked, and no appology can repair that. The damage has been done, it was taken too far. The last comments of 'them' all laughing and making fun,... 'at least she got her bfp first,...wtg lmao ' was inappropriate,...they took it too far. I'm immensely hurt by this.

 

[cebethel]

Do you have any idea what I went through to get that BFP? DO YOU????

Do you understand how close to death I was with my first pregnancy? Do you understand how close I am to losing this one??

Does that matter to you?? Or anyone who actually read both sides of what went on?

How often did I say to stop with the drama............Remember that???

This is messed up beyond everything.............

 

[Junebug_CJ]

Eva... No one has walked in your shoes, so no one has the right to assume anything about you

HM, no one would ever wish an MC on anyone. We're all sorry got you. Now let's please stop being antagonistic and resume the support, OK ladies?

 

[dachsundmom]

And there you are, the amazing ladies, I knew you were here! Thank you for the support, the whole reason I came here You're awesome and I hope the best for you. I'm a strong believer in karma, you are good people and good things will happen to you! Stay strong! I'm going to miss you girls, I plan on keeping it low right now to avoid anymore negativity. PM's are welcome, unless it's to bully, then I won't even give it the time to read. I'll be around, just plan to keep to myself. Just the odd comment to support (at least that will be my intention, still) That way I can avoid kwim? Yes I feel attacked, and no appology can repair that. The damage has been done, it was taken too far. The last comments of 'them' all laughing and making fun,... 'at least she got her bfp first,...wtg lmao ' was inappropriate,...they took it too far. I'm immensely hurt by this.

The comment about 'getting her BFP first' was for Eva, sometimes the threads move very fast; and that comment was made by me.

Only this one time will I do this, you do not know me, much like I don't know you. Our sarcasm is directed at each other and if you follow our threads, you will see that it stays in our threads and those that comment know this and roll with it.

You will also notice that none of us ever joined the August testing thread and only chimed in when a friend came to us hurt; that's what we do. We all have each other's backs.

I have been at this TTC game a very long time and I have had my share of losses; I choose not to focus on that, nor put it out there...oh, I have a 14 yo DD and she is a wonderfully adjusted child.

While TTC, I have had my DH in Texas, Korea, and Afghanistan in a little place known as 'the Valley of Death'...google the Korengal valley if you ever get bored.

Just bc I am not as open about myself does not make me hearltess; the women that you are upset with are very dear to me. I have never seen you post in any of 'our' threads, so you are being very harsh to judge us; you do not know what any of these women have been through; much like we don't know yours.

Like I said, we defended our friend and I would do so again in a heartbeat. If that makes me a spiteful bit*h, I can live with it.

Please excuse any typos.

 

[NorthStar]

This is not one of my threads either but I've read it through and I'm shocked by the accusations levelled at a really great bunch of women who've given me some wonderful support and advice in my short time on BnB, and have shared their knowledge and encouraged me every step of the way.

 

[cebethel]

Ya know.........someone that shall remain nameless pm'd me.........unsolicited - didn't ask for a pm, and it made me realize that some folk just can't help themselves.

So, for the sake of my sanity, the block option is something I am going to put into effect.............first time ever.

I do not want accusatory messages sent to me.........you know who you are. If you try to message me, or get someone else to message me, I will report you.

Try to practice what you preach. You are not the only one going thru shitty times............

 

[sarasparra]

Maybe we can try to get the thread back on track now and just put a stop to all this 'slightly off topic' picking at each other.

I thought this was supposed to be about us all being in the same boat and supporting those that get AF this month and are struggling and being happy for those that get their BFPs. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong!!

Well I for one am sending out positive vibes to all the women left to test this month and I hope you stick with this thread - I know I will be watching to see how you all get on.

Have a good evening / afternoon wherever you are
xx

 

[Macwooly]

Sarasparra I missed you'd got your BFP Congratulations and wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months

 

[sarasparra]

Hee hee that's ok Mac, thanks for your congrats x

 

[happymamma]

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[cebethel]

Sarasparra, I'm missing a lot of things lately..........sorry

CONGRATS on your BFP!! Wishing you a fantastic 9 months

 

[sumatwsimit]

well said sara

im really sorry girls, i think you're a great bunch on here and when i've read your posts on other threads, you've really made me laugh on here and lightened the mode. and i thank you for that.

but please don't hate me when i say i actually read all what was put ' conversation to conversation' ....and i can honestly say that i didnt find anything posted by happymamma offensive that should have triggered such a reaction. i can see how it has been read but i think it was totally misconstrued. i don't know happymamma personally, only on this thread ( mostly because of recent events), but stepping in on her defense over this incident.

believe me, i do understand about personal stresses/traumas etc and when you are 'in that' place emotionally everything hurts, and you can quickly make a wrong judgment, but hurting one another further is really not the answer.

i really hope you can all move on quickly from this, this is all just added unnecessary upset that we all can do without.

 

[Macwooly]

This is not one of my threads either but I've read it through and I'm shocked by the accusations levelled at a really great bunch of women who've given me some wonderful support and advice in my short time on BnB, and have shared their knowledge and encouraged me every step of the way.

You wouldn't be shocked at how I feel if they didn't delete their SHIT! BITCHES!!

ENOUGH!

I am truly sorry you have had a lose as I am truly sorry when anyone has a lose.

I know feelings are running high among all but name calling is unacceptable!

I suggest to all parties to take some time away from this thread and maybe this board to calm down!

People on all sides have felt attacked which I am sure is not how anyone wanted to make anyone else feel!

Can we please just offer congratulations and a happy and healthy 9 months to the ladies who have their BFPs; offer deepest sympathies to those who has suffered lose at any time in their TTC journey and good luck to those still waiting to test!

 

[Sus09]

Congrats Sarasparra!! Excellent news

 

[Indigo77]

If you are the innocent victim in all this, then why did you delete your posts?

If you have more of a right to be here because you joined this forum first, and you think we should leave the 35+ section, please explain your 'logic'. Before you do so, however, please observe the number of posts for each of us.*

Your 'logic' is nonsensical. We noticed that something did not seem 'right' about you. That is why we attempted to ignore you even as you continued to lash out at us in rage. We asked you to stop several times, but you continue still.*

You keep bringing up the spelling remark, but have conveniently forgotten your threats and your remarks. Before*you continue with attempts*to disparage our character, please observe your own actions. Your anger is displaced.*

You are mistaken when you accuse us of not congratulating people when they get BFPs. Go to the BFP sticky thread and you will see your error.

 

[Indigo77]

Congrats Sara!

 

[dachsundmom]

For anyone I missed...

 

[Sus09]

This is not one of my threads either but I've read it through and I'm shocked by the accusations levelled at a really great bunch of women who've given me some wonderful support and advice in my short time on BnB, and have shared their knowledge and encouraged me every step of the way.

You wouldn't be shocked at how I feel if they didn't delete their SHIT! BITCHES!!

ENOUGH!

I am truly sorry you have had a lose as I am truly sorry when anyone has a lose.

I know feelings are running high among all but name calling is unacceptable!

I suggest to all parties to take some time away from this thread and maybe this board to calm down!

People on all sides have felt attacked which I am sure is not how anyone wanted to make anyone else feel!

Can we please just offer congratulations and a happy and healthy 9 months to the ladies who have their BFPs; offer deepest sympathies to those who has suffered lose at any time in their TTC journey and good luck to those still waiting to test!

Mcwooly dont go!! You would be really missed:hrugs:

 

[cebethel]

This is not one of my threads either but I've read it through and I'm shocked by the accusations levelled at a really great bunch of women who've given me some wonderful support and advice in my short time on BnB, and have shared their knowledge and encouraged me every step of the way.

You wouldn't be shocked at how I feel if they didn't delete their SHIT! BITCHES!!

ENOUGH!

I am truly sorry you have had a lose as I am truly sorry when anyone has a lose.

I know feelings are running high among all but name calling is unacceptable!

I suggest to all parties to take some time away from this thread and maybe this board to calm down!

People on all sides have felt attacked which I am sure is not how anyone wanted to make anyone else feel!

Can we please just offer congratulations and a happy and healthy 9 months to the ladies who have their BFPs; offer deepest sympathies to those who has suffered lose at any time in their TTC journey and good luck to those still waiting to test!

Mcwooly dont go!! You would be really missed:hrugs:

I second that x 100000000000000000