Autumn Babies!! :) *renamed*

[XxSamBxX]

So who else is having October/autumn babies and absolutley petrified? so early days and so long to go!!

I'm Sam i'm 23 pregnant for the second time after suffering a m/c at 9wks November 2010

I am scared out my whits incase something goes wrong!! and i have so far to go!! and i was wondering whoelse in this forum was the same as me!

i will add all the names of the october mummy's at the bottom will try and keep as updated as possible

OCTOBER BABIES!!!!
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XxSamBxX - Caculated to be due 21/10/11
Maze - Due 3/10/11
Vixmar - Calculated to be due 2/10/11
Aquarius24 - Due 2/10/11
Rumpskin - Due end of September DTBC
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[Maze]

I am due October 3rd and had a miscarriage October 2010. I have been a roller coaster of emotions! First my HCG levels were too low (the doctors were over-reacting, I was only a day late for my period) and now they are more than doubling every 48-72 hours which might not be good either.... but! I am trying to take things as they come and have a scan on the 9th that shall hopefully tell us if this is going to be an average pregnancy or not.

I am petrified though... and I have a habit of googling every little thing.

I think my number one fear right now is a molar pregnancy.

It just doesn't seem fair, I already have one son (who I got pregnant with at 19) and that pregnancy was smooth sailing and I never really had this fear that I have now. I wish I could have that fearless attitude back that was maybe a little naive.

Good luck, I think the first several weeks are the worst. I know the first week I knew I was pregnant (found out at 4 weeks) I was a complete mess.

It helps knowing you aren't alone though.

 

[XxSamBxX]

I'm sorry for your loss! this forum has been a god send to me since i miscarried so god bless google the ladies on here (miscarriage support, TTCAL & here) have been amazing every step of the way.

I didnt know who else was due in october on PAL because there are lots at different stages.

I have taken a pregnancy test like everyday this week i think because i am so scared even thou the test shows me nothing really apart from i am pregnant.

God i wish i could have a fearless attitude but that doesnt come naturally to me

i hope your scan goes well babe

 

[Vixmar]

I am due October 3rd and had a miscarriage October 2010. I have been a roller coaster of emotions! First my HCG levels were too low (the doctors were over-reacting, I was only a day late for my period) and now they are more than doubling every 48-72 hours which might not be good either.... but! I am trying to take things as they come and have a scan on the 9th that shall hopefully tell us if this is going to be an average pregnancy or not.

I am petrified though... and I have a habit of googling every little thing.

I think my number one fear right now is a molar pregnancy.

It just doesn't seem fair, I already have one son (who I got pregnant with at 19) and that pregnancy was smooth sailing and I never really had this fear that I have now. I wish I could have that fearless attitude back that was maybe a little naive.

Good luck, I think the first several weeks are the worst. I know the first week I knew I was pregnant (found out at 4 weeks) I was a complete mess.

It helps knowing you aren't alone though.

Hi Sam! im sooo glad were doing it together lol,
As u may remember by bean was discovered to be ectopic at a scan on nov 1st 2010, discoverd i was expecting 2 weeks ago, how scared am i!!? not that its extopic as im pretty sure it isnt, but the fact that ectopic rates are 1 in 100 and i had one.... risk of mc is 1 in 3!!! if i am as unlucky enought to get the long shot whats my chance of the mc!!! i cant stop going to toilet to check and im poking myself constantly to feel for any pain ohhhh its horrid! i have a scan on 17th!!! the 17th!!! they are leaving me till 17th ohhhhhhh not even had my hcg bloods done! Altho im not too sure i wanted them doing as itd only worry me!
Like you said Maize, i was had my daugther at 16 and i was young and stupid and sailed throught that pregnancy! it was perfect..... with my son at 21 i bled and then my ectopic! roll on 12th April when ill b 12weeks and hopefully "safe"
And google should b band lol
why do you fear you may have a molar pregnancy? acording to my dates im due 2nd oct, altho my ticker says otherwise as i buggered it up lol
Good luck ladies i hope the next 7months are happy and healthy x

 

[XxSamBxX]

well we'll just have to support each other for the next 7/8 months wont we? but GOD i hope they sail by!! roll on april "safe zones" for all!!

 

[Maze]

I think at the end of the day all we can do is take care of our bodies and hope for the best. My mom keeps telling me 'whatever will be, will be.' and basically that driving myself nuts with worry is not going to help my case.

I am getting married pretty much the day I am considered safe. We're planning on announcing our pregnancy during the speeches if everything goes well.

Also, I am worried about a Molar pregnancy because that is one of the reasons your HCG levels rise higher than they should, that and multiples. Plus it can become cancerous.... and the idea of that is terrifying! I want to be healthy for my little boy.

I hope we all make it through just fine, consecutive miscarriages are very tough on the heart.

Keep thinking positive thoughts!

 

[XxSamBxX]

Maze i hope it all goes fine for you i'm sure it will!! have you been to see your gp? fingers crossed for you!!

 

[Aquarius24]

Hi ladies. I'm still nervous about posting just yet... I dont want to jinx it! I'm due 2 oct. Had 2 mc last year and am 6 weeks this weekend. Got an early scan on the 15th and my emotions are all over the place. Want to get excited but can't. I'm trying to be positive though. Here's to our healthy autumn babies! Xx

 

[XxSamBxX]

congrats babe!! fx'd for the scan i'm sure it will be fine!!

 

[Aquarius24]

Thanks sam!! Have u got an early scan booked ? X

 

[Rumpskin]

Me - due at the end of September - scan tomorrow to ensure little bubs is okay and should know then!

x

 

[XxSamBxX]

Thanks sam!! Have u got an early scan booked ? X

yea i was at a&e last night with severe cramps so they booked me in for a scan on tomorrow at 2pm i'm absolultley petrified!!

welcome Rumpskin
wishing you a happy & healthy 9 months

 

[Aquarius24]

Fingers crossed all is ok at Yr scan xx

 

[Vixmar]

Me - due at the end of September - scan tomorrow to ensure little bubs is okay and should know then!

x

Gd luck with the scan!! Will you let us have a look at your scan pic as i have one booked for 17th due to ectopic in nov just to make sure its in right place and im scared of what i may or may not see, at 6weeks my last scan had a heartbeat but ive read not eveyones does!! im dreading laying on the bed for the lady to fanny about poking me, im also going to ask her to do a internal as i want to know straight away as it took 15min to confirm my ectopic when from the 1st min of the scan i knew somthing wasnt right!! Im going to say plz just do a internal and tell me either way asap, also at my other scan i never got to see my ectopic bean altho she did say there was a heart beat id have like to have seen it, i went bk 2 weeks later and go my scan pic that i have in a box,
Rumpskin gd luck for 2moz!
And Sam i do hope everything is all ok, i think somtimes we panic coz after a lose ur more aware of our bodys than say a lady who has never doubted their pregnancy and sails throught!! im sure everything is just fine, let me know x

 

[XxSamBxX]

I think i am miscarrying as i write this cramping came back with quite heavy dark red blood i am distraught why is this happening to me again? they've taken one of my babies already why another one? im 24 for christ sake whats wrong with me?

 

[Aquarius24]

Aw babes Im so sorry. I know exactly how u feel. Please be around your loved ones and let them look after u. Life can be so cruel. Lots of love to u x

 

[Aquarius24]

Hey sam how are u doing? Have u been to epu? Really hope it's good news for u x

 

[glaciergirl]

I think i am miscarrying as i write this cramping came back with quite heavy dark red blood i am distraught why is this happening to me again? they've taken one of my babies already why another one? im 24 for christ sake whats wrong with me?

Sam - I am so sorry for you. We had our first mc at the same time in Nov last year, and I was so chuffed when i read that you made it. My thoughts are with you, lots of hugs and love xx

 

[XxSamBxX]

Hey sam how are u doing? Have u been to epu? Really hope it's good news for u x

went and had a scan today they couldnt see anything as its too early i had my bloods taken and will find out in a few days but bleeding is getting heavier