Ninagrrl
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So this is a strange story to me and no one, doctors included, have ever explained to me why this happened, just that my date must have been off. But I know it wasn't. When my son was conceived, I was charting BBT, OPKs and only DTD 1 time in a 2 week block. I wasn't trying to conceive that cycle, persay, but figured timing couldn't hurt so I got my +OPK, saw my temp drop next morning, DTD and 2 weeks later had a BFP. Mind you, I was on progesterone trying to lengthen my cycles due to a luteal phase defect. So, the short version of this, I know within a day or so of conception so I know my due date was likely Dec 5th. They gave me EDD of Dec 8th.
On Dec 2nd my water broke and there was maconium present. No contractions, breech presentation, maconium, and estimated to be 12lbs due to GD, I ended up having him by EMCS. After he was born the doctors had decided that my EDD was wrong and that he was a week to 10 days overdue. Not possible. Going between the 2 dates he was early to mid 39 weeks. He did show signs of being late though. The maconium, no vernix, long brittle nails, and very dry, peeling skin that took almost 2 weeks to clear up.
I know all babies grow at their own rates, but I guess I'm looking for similar stories of babies showing signs of being late when they are earlier in term. I'm having my second baby in a month and I'm really hoping for a VBAC. If I cook my babies faster then the average, I'm afraid of going "overdue" and having worse complications that come with baby being "late". They won't induce and I want to avoid a c-section but I'm afraid of going past 40 weeks.
Sorry for the long story, just really getting anxious about this and hoping for someone who might have an answer that can help me relax a bit. Figured I'd post here since it's about birth stories not really pregnancy. Wasn't sure where else I should post this that would get seen.
On Dec 2nd my water broke and there was maconium present. No contractions, breech presentation, maconium, and estimated to be 12lbs due to GD, I ended up having him by EMCS. After he was born the doctors had decided that my EDD was wrong and that he was a week to 10 days overdue. Not possible. Going between the 2 dates he was early to mid 39 weeks. He did show signs of being late though. The maconium, no vernix, long brittle nails, and very dry, peeling skin that took almost 2 weeks to clear up.
I know all babies grow at their own rates, but I guess I'm looking for similar stories of babies showing signs of being late when they are earlier in term. I'm having my second baby in a month and I'm really hoping for a VBAC. If I cook my babies faster then the average, I'm afraid of going "overdue" and having worse complications that come with baby being "late". They won't induce and I want to avoid a c-section but I'm afraid of going past 40 weeks.
Sorry for the long story, just really getting anxious about this and hoping for someone who might have an answer that can help me relax a bit. Figured I'd post here since it's about birth stories not really pregnancy. Wasn't sure where else I should post this that would get seen.