Hey! I am 18 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. My bf and I are excited but I have found myself SOO grossed out most evenings when he takes his socks and shoes off. I sigh inside when I see him start to get ready for bed because most of the time his feet smell. Since I have become pregnant it seems like he has become lax in terms of hygiene.
He showers about once every two weeks. His pits and other areas don't offend me as i assume he takes "hobo showers" but lately his feet do smell EVERY DAY. And he wears the same stiff, smelly, nasty socks for days!! Plus he sits on the couch cross legged and rubs and picks at his nasty dirty feet and doesn't wash his hands after. UGHHH.
I mostly just needed to rant, that is why I posted this. But also interested in hearing feedback and how to handle it tastefully. My mother was REALLY upfront about cleanliness when I was growing up and sometimes would say things to me like "you need to wipe your ass/change your panties" infront of people, not just family members. That caused some pain inside for me and hate to think I would hurt his feelings. But this can't go on.
He showers about once every two weeks. His pits and other areas don't offend me as i assume he takes "hobo showers" but lately his feet do smell EVERY DAY. And he wears the same stiff, smelly, nasty socks for days!! Plus he sits on the couch cross legged and rubs and picks at his nasty dirty feet and doesn't wash his hands after. UGHHH.
I mostly just needed to rant, that is why I posted this. But also interested in hearing feedback and how to handle it tastefully. My mother was REALLY upfront about cleanliness when I was growing up and sometimes would say things to me like "you need to wipe your ass/change your panties" infront of people, not just family members. That caused some pain inside for me and hate to think I would hurt his feelings. But this can't go on.
