So today I'm an auntie after my preggo brother in law's girlfriend (its complicated!) gave birth at 34 weeks...little boy who is admittedly the most beautiul i've ever seen...
And i find myself a JEALOUS WITCH OF A WOMAN!!!!!!
I've been offended by much of their behaviour over the past 4 days which i wont go into even considering their difficult situation..
And still find myself really F****ed off they have a baby... it all just totally sucks!!!
I find myself being really critical she had an epidural.. as if when i have babies (fingers crossed) i'll get through it without one and that shes some kind of wimp for having one when the baby is tiny and preterm (birth weight 5lbs)!
I even find myself pleased she didnt have a girl after family comments she would have a girl and she was special because of that, and i wasnt-therefore would have boys...
I find myself jealous that my mother in law feel she understands her better after knowing her for 20 weeks when i've know her for 4 years.. and i find myself jealous they now share having had a premature baby with each other...
I'm going insane...
And i'm upset my husband is more excited about them having a baby than he is about us having a baby.. whenever that might be...
I am going to hell for sure! And i know all of it is totally unfair....
For sure going to hell....
And i find myself a JEALOUS WITCH OF A WOMAN!!!!!!
I've been offended by much of their behaviour over the past 4 days which i wont go into even considering their difficult situation..
And still find myself really F****ed off they have a baby... it all just totally sucks!!!
I find myself being really critical she had an epidural.. as if when i have babies (fingers crossed) i'll get through it without one and that shes some kind of wimp for having one when the baby is tiny and preterm (birth weight 5lbs)!
I even find myself pleased she didnt have a girl after family comments she would have a girl and she was special because of that, and i wasnt-therefore would have boys...
I find myself jealous that my mother in law feel she understands her better after knowing her for 20 weeks when i've know her for 4 years.. and i find myself jealous they now share having had a premature baby with each other...
I'm going insane...
And i'm upset my husband is more excited about them having a baby than he is about us having a baby.. whenever that might be...
I am going to hell for sure! And i know all of it is totally unfair....
For sure going to hell....