Baby Kirkham 02/08/08

So sorry for your loss darling, its heartbreaking i know xxx

i think evryone is different in coping with mc, i had one back in Feb this year, me and OH were of course so upset, but we both knew that it just wasn't right that time, and that spurred us on to try again.

i had a D&C too, 1 AF then caught again and all is going well this time. i dont know if there is any truth in it but they say you are very fertile particularly after a D&C as you have a clean slate as it were.

you have to follow your heart, you will know when and if you want to try again, its in Gods hands darling, thats what got us through xxx

all the best to you and do take care:hugs:
 
Oh my darling, I am so sorry.

My thoughts are with you and your family xxx
 
thankyou so much for all your replies :hugs::hugs: xx
 
I know it's a bit cliche but time really is a great healer....the pain never completely goes babe but it does get easier to cope with:hugs:
 
awww honey I am so sorry for your pain and suffering at this awful time.:hugs:
I seem to know all too well how you are feeling, when it happens once its heartbreaking but twice is god damn soul destroying.
Keep strong and it does get easier, I promise.

xx:hug:
 
Hi...sorry to hear your sad news.

Given time, you will eventually feel better, you'll never forget but will be able to cope with the sadness and emptiness. (I had my 2nd mc in May at 8+2 weeks).

Just give yourself time to grieve, your body to heal. Try and spend time with loved ones doing something to pass the time..my DH and I managed to go away for the day to be alone and have some time away from the 'hum drum' of everyday life. In time, you may want to remember your LO with a piece of jewellery or shrub/tree for the garden.

Take care

:hug: x
 
I miss you more than words can say :cry: :cry: xx
 
not trying to forget or replace you darling, love you so so much, we should been over half way now to meeting you, when we went away on holiday in September, your big brother was looking for you out of the aeroplane window in the clouds, he thought it was heaven, maybe some day we will meet again .... xxxxxxxxx
 
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I dont know what to say. Just sending you massive :hug: and if you ever want to talk to someone, please just pm me :hugs:
 
sorrry for your loss babe you will get thro it and it will get better at some point promise xx
 

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