mummypeanut
baby due march 10th
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I'm in the very early stages of pregnancy (7 weeks) but ive known even before i concieved that i wanted to try baby wearing when the baby was born and that i wanted to try for a home birth.
Ive done a bit of travelling and the way 'underdeveloped' countries carry their children seemed much more natural to me than putting a tiny baby in a massive contraption and pushing it around. I also feel quite strongly that birth should be (where possible) as close to a natural experience as possible. If i can manage it (and thats a big if) if like to be at home, with a midwife ive chosen and my husband. i want it to be a family experience not a medical one
Anyway my mum is, of course, really excited at the prospect of her first grandchild and was speaking to me yesterday about wanting to buy us a pram. I brought up that hubby and i had looked into baby wearing and we were seriously considering it as an option.
Her immediate reaction was
-you cant
-your back will ache
-your going to want a pram
- its just not sensible
i also think she was quite hurt and took my comments as a bad reaction to her offering a gift.
Its not that i dont appreciate it - i really really do. Its just id like the oppertunity to try and if a few weeks after the baby is born its not working out - for what ever reason....then spend the 500 quid on a pram....not before.
I dont know....Im feeling very negative right now....I want a home birth if possible and id like to do co sleeping and baby wearing but everyone keeps telling me this is pretty much impossible, inpractical etc etc and being a first timer i have no idea if im right or wrong. I'm also having that hellish time where everyone keeps throwing all thier childbirth horrors at me and its starting to feel like it would be completely impossible to manage a home birth.
Hellllp.....feeling glum
Ive done a bit of travelling and the way 'underdeveloped' countries carry their children seemed much more natural to me than putting a tiny baby in a massive contraption and pushing it around. I also feel quite strongly that birth should be (where possible) as close to a natural experience as possible. If i can manage it (and thats a big if) if like to be at home, with a midwife ive chosen and my husband. i want it to be a family experience not a medical one
Anyway my mum is, of course, really excited at the prospect of her first grandchild and was speaking to me yesterday about wanting to buy us a pram. I brought up that hubby and i had looked into baby wearing and we were seriously considering it as an option.
Her immediate reaction was
-you cant
-your back will ache
-your going to want a pram
- its just not sensible
i also think she was quite hurt and took my comments as a bad reaction to her offering a gift.
Its not that i dont appreciate it - i really really do. Its just id like the oppertunity to try and if a few weeks after the baby is born its not working out - for what ever reason....then spend the 500 quid on a pram....not before.
I dont know....Im feeling very negative right now....I want a home birth if possible and id like to do co sleeping and baby wearing but everyone keeps telling me this is pretty much impossible, inpractical etc etc and being a first timer i have no idea if im right or wrong. I'm also having that hellish time where everyone keeps throwing all thier childbirth horrors at me and its starting to feel like it would be completely impossible to manage a home birth.
Hellllp.....feeling glum