Babys Due date ...everyones forgotten

[maccy]

I had a miscarriage in May this year, baby was due today and only my darling hubby has phoned to see how I'm doing. struggling to hold back the tears! I am pregnant again 15 weeks now but still hurts me so bad that I went through that horrific experience. This m/c forum was where I met loads of friends who supported me and without them I would have never gotten through it.

 

[oracle]

maccy

i know how that feels, just want to send your angel baby healing and positive energy, i can guarantee you your baby is all around you today.

good luck with your pregnancy
x

 

[NickyT75]

so sorry no body remembered your angels special day sweetheart xx

 

[DaisyDuke]

I'm so sorry babe, i'm so sad for u that no one remembered

 

[Smiler]

So sorry to hear. The important thing is your hubby remembered and rang to see how you were. My OH was the only one to remember my due date. I think other people just dont like to mention it, so instead of saying anything, say nothing. thinking of you

 

[buffycat]

maccy......i guess that many people forget about these because they didn't go through the emotional rollercoaster......

main thing is that dh remembered though......

 

[Alexas Mommy]

 

[haaza123]

So sorry for your loss. I had my first miscarriage in may too, my due date was 2 weeks ago. Nobody remembered other then my hubs. At first it really hurt that everyone had forgotton, but a friend who has had a mc told me that it is something people feel awkward about mentioning. Now i realised that my hubs remembered and thats the most important thing.

Take it easy
xxxx

 

[Hevz]

I don't think a lot of people remember due dates anyway to be honest. I'm 29wks pregnant and my family still say to me each time they see me "what's your due date again?"

What is majorly important to us I'm afraid isn't as important to others....to them, life goes on. it is hurtful though I know. I lost two babies shortly after they were born and nobody ever mentions their birthdays or offers some flowers for me to put on the grave etc and I find it really upsetting. To be honest I think they remember Thomas' birthday as it was the day after Boxing day but they never mention Rachael's, her birthday is 6 days after mine so not easy to forget I wouldn't have thought


Our angels are in our hearts forever but I'm afraid it's up to us Mummies and Daddies to remember these special and difficult days

 

[Jkelmum]

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry for your loss.

You have got through the hardest part now, i hope you can start to heal.

 

[babymojo]

Thank you so much for your post i wake up crying everyday lately my baby was suppose to be born this month i'm not pregnant again and OH and i are not doing very well! i'm so heartbroken! Thank you all for making me feel better that i'm not nuts! xxxx

 

[Rumpskin]

Sorry that no one remembered sweety.

 

[tillymum]

Just wanted to give you a massive
Due dates are so hard, I was in pieces with mine, so know how you are feeling.
Lots of more hugs for you

 

[cleckner04]

I don't know what it's like yet to hit the due date mark but I know it will be hard. Sending you huge . I'm glad your husband remembered. Others may just not want to upset you more.

 

[maccy]

Thanks so much girls, it was a tough day to get through and seeing a new born baby is heartbreaking cause you can't help think that it should be you. I am looking forward now and hoping that this pregnancy will be a sticky healthy one. x

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry no one remembered.

 

[Logiebear]

I posted almost exactly the same as you hun, I remember you and I had miscarriages around the same time. My due date was Nov 25th and like you I found so much support and help on here but in real life people are too quick to dismiss and forget!

I am 25 weeks pregnant but like you said it doesn't stop you thinking about what might have been. I feel for you hun and understand what you are going through.

Sorry this post is a little after the event but wanted you to know that I know how you feel xxx

 

[maccy]

Ah thanks hun, hope your doing well with this pregnancy. It's a tough thing and something I don't think anyone should have to go through! x