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So one of our domestic help is always extra cuddly with my 3yr old which I really don't appreciate.. my son also doesn't seem to be a fan.
Today she again did it and my son kind of smacked her. My husband got really angry and asked my son to apologise. I on the other hand thought that it's ok to react in this way as child might not b comfortable. And he should b able to express it and not force himself to be comfortable with it.
Now the help is obviously in a foul mood. Even my full-time nanny isn't too touchy with my son. I have told her to b watchful of the help and never leave my son around her for anytime. But honestly now I m scared
Did I do the right thing or just extrapolating it?
Today she again did it and my son kind of smacked her. My husband got really angry and asked my son to apologise. I on the other hand thought that it's ok to react in this way as child might not b comfortable. And he should b able to express it and not force himself to be comfortable with it.
Now the help is obviously in a foul mood. Even my full-time nanny isn't too touchy with my son. I have told her to b watchful of the help and never leave my son around her for anytime. But honestly now I m scared
Did I do the right thing or just extrapolating it?