Been crying a lot these couple of days

[Bunnylicious]

I have never cried this long before. Usually I just sulked a couple of hours and moved on.
I was on the pills for 8 years, stopped august last year, timed TTC for 9 months. I turned 30 this June.

This time, when my temp took huge dip on 14 dpo, I cried for about an hour till I fell asleep. I felt a bit better after, and spent the day with my friend whole day. I kept this feeling a secret from her cuz I was embarassed.
Then at night/dinner time, I met with her new Bf first time. We were getting to know each other. He was a nice person. But then, we sorta got into the family topic, he asked, "Are you gonna have kids someday?" My friend elbowed him cuz she knew it's a sensitive topic to me, and changed topic.
We were going to his place to hang out, separate cars.
When he went to get his car, I was with my friend in her car about to leave. I suddenly cried loudly. So my friend took me home instead. I told her why I was crying. I guess that topic hit my sensitive spot.


She was telling me not to blame myself for keep failing getting pregnant.
I have pretty regular period, ovulate every time, exercise 2-3 times a week, take vitamins and eat food that promote fertility.
I wish I ovulated on day 14, sick of waiting 3 weeks to ovulate.

She then told me to get my husband's sperm count check out.
He said he will some time next week.

I'm really scared if there's something wrong with me or him, and we cannot conceive within a year and have to go through expensive treatments.

My older sister could get pregnant within 6-7 months twice when she was 32-33 (1st was Mc). Why so hard for me..

I'm crying while typing this post too.

Thanks for reading my super long rant.

 

[Lily7]

Awk don't cry, believe me you are not alone.

I am on my phone atm but I will do a proper post when i get home

x

 

[greenpear]

Awwww Please don't cry. I know how tiring ttc game can get, especially when you see lots of people around you become pregnant and/or deliver kids, or when you walk into a park and see little kids running around and you keep thinking "geez, all you fertile people, how do you do it?"

Don't worry, your time will come dear. I've been ttc for over 9 months as well, and this time around I decided to go for ntnp approach because it started to drive me nuts, and actually I feel a bit better because I don't constantly think about the "right time" and the "right temperature". It sounds like you are leading a very healthy life, and I'm sure your will come soon. Don't lose hope hun, and we're here for you

 

[jessPtobe]

Hey

I know how you feel, Im 32, and feel like everyone is pushing a buggy except me !!!!

We been ttc for 18 months, eat healthy, excerise, sleep well, getting married in sep, and nothing. Last month I had a chemical, , and I ripped up all my temp charts, threw my internet cheapies across the room, cried at every baby advert on the TV, and then got results of hubbys sperm count, which is low, so I had the hugest bottle of wine

So, this month, I am doing my OPKs, and just taking each day as it comes, cos it is a hard process. I too have to wait 3 weeks as I ovulate early, day 9 or 10.
All I can say is, if you feel sad, cry, and if you feel ok, get in that bed. I wish I could say it got easier for me, but it hasnt, but you do learn just to cope. I love my hubby to be so much and I couldnt cope with out him so I just remind myself that as much as I wanna have a bump, Im thankful for what I have.
Still doesnt mean you dont want to throw every BNF test out the window and have a massive tantrum tho!

Good luck hun. Im about to enter the dreaded 3 week wait!
xxx

 

[tryingntrying]

I have been TTC for a year now. Don't worry, you are most certainly not alone. Sometimes you can do everything right and it just takes time. Ask many of the ladies on here who have tried for years and did absolutely nothing different when they got their BFP. As long as you are being the best you can be, then that is what matters. You are doing everything in your power to promote conception. Everything else is out of your control. Now, if only I could take my own advice...

 

[Bunnylicious]

thank you all. I'm feeling a tiny bit better now.

I've been testing using ICs and CBFM.
I think I just gonna use the CBFM this cycle. It's less stressful since I only have to POAS in the morning. It's been working for me pretty well. Also take a break from using BBT temp, I lose sleep whenever I see bad temps, and besides I used up the battery haha

 

[Lily7]

I hope you ae feeling a little better, I think we all go through phases of feeling like that, well I know I certainly do.

I know how hard it is to shake off that feeling even though you a reasoning with yourself in your head! This ttc business is going to drive us all crazy!

Joking aside.....BIG HUGS x

 

[Damita]

I've had months like that, please don't cry, I know it's hard, I'm just about to hit a year and that will be tough, DH SA came back above average so it's me.. I just feel bad that it's my fault we aren't getting pregnant

 

[chuichi]

Lately it's been happening to me too, crying myself to sleep...

I guess you just have to realise you're not alone in this process, and we'll definitely get there one day! Very soon!!!!!!!!!

 

[Lily7]

I've had months like that, please don't cry, I know it's hard, I'm just about to hit a year and that will be tough, DH SA came back above average so it's me.. I just feel bad that it's my fault we aren't getting pregnant

My DH sa came back good aswell and I was getting on the same way as you, I just couldn't stop saying, its all my fault (even though I know I have no control over anything)

I hope we all get bfp's very very soon

 

[Rebecca Rober]

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