tootsy1987
Abbi and Alfie - My World
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She was fuming!!!!!!
Firstly...
having to sit amongst a load of huge pregnant women was just torture!!!!!!!!!
I went in and the lady i saw was lovely(was half expecting her to say fuck off your only 21! lol)! she went through a few questions with me then i decided to tell her about the nasty stupid incompetent doctor that i saw on monday, (here is the thread if anyone missed it...)
https://www.babyandbump.com/miscarr...-nasty-doctor-rant-am-over-reacting-here.html
So i told her that she said i had no right to be at the fert clinic because the reason i couldnt carry was cause i was far too overweight, she looked at me in horror and said OMG! your absolutley fine, there is nothing wrong with your weight at all! then i said, oh and she also said as far as she was concerned i had aborted a purfectly healthy baby.... she looked in absolute dismay and said... ''a doctor said that to you?'' i said yes... so she looked through the notes to where the results from the tests they done on the baby and said ''no hunny you definately had a miscarriage, there was abnormalities''. She thought it was disgusting that someone could say that and she going to right something in her report as i said it had caused me extra stress and worry hearing that.
Anyway she said that they are going to run a whole load of blood tests on me and a geneology blood test on both me and OH. I have to go in for them between the 2nd and 4th day of my next period (due this weekend). She said hat 99% of people will never have a problem found which is reasuring but if they do find a problem then its the case of trying to find some way of sorting it out... so it was a hugely positive thing i think. She has made an appt for me to go back in 4 months. She said there is absolutley no reason for me not to start trying again asap
Really hope that the next time i have to go in there is for my final check up just before i give birth!!
Oh she also stated when i first walked in that she had gotten a fright cause she said i was on her list of people to see / speak to twice today as the docs hadnt informed them i miscarried so she though i was a different person and was going to phone me to say she had received my maternity notes! i would have been soooo bludy upset if she done that, also i received my pregnancy diary from docs today, WAS 4 FECKING WEEKS SINCE ERPC!! surely they should have got it into there heads by now!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry for the rant girls xxxxx
Firstly...
having to sit amongst a load of huge pregnant women was just torture!!!!!!!!! I went in and the lady i saw was lovely(was half expecting her to say fuck off your only 21! lol)! she went through a few questions with me then i decided to tell her about the nasty stupid incompetent doctor that i saw on monday, (here is the thread if anyone missed it...)
https://www.babyandbump.com/miscarr...-nasty-doctor-rant-am-over-reacting-here.html
So i told her that she said i had no right to be at the fert clinic because the reason i couldnt carry was cause i was far too overweight, she looked at me in horror and said OMG! your absolutley fine, there is nothing wrong with your weight at all! then i said, oh and she also said as far as she was concerned i had aborted a purfectly healthy baby.... she looked in absolute dismay and said... ''a doctor said that to you?'' i said yes... so she looked through the notes to where the results from the tests they done on the baby and said ''no hunny you definately had a miscarriage, there was abnormalities''. She thought it was disgusting that someone could say that and she going to right something in her report as i said it had caused me extra stress and worry hearing that.
Anyway she said that they are going to run a whole load of blood tests on me and a geneology blood test on both me and OH. I have to go in for them between the 2nd and 4th day of my next period (due this weekend). She said hat 99% of people will never have a problem found which is reasuring but if they do find a problem then its the case of trying to find some way of sorting it out... so it was a hugely positive thing i think. She has made an appt for me to go back in 4 months. She said there is absolutley no reason for me not to start trying again asap
Really hope that the next time i have to go in there is for my final check up just before i give birth!!
Oh she also stated when i first walked in that she had gotten a fright cause she said i was on her list of people to see / speak to twice today as the docs hadnt informed them i miscarried so she though i was a different person and was going to phone me to say she had received my maternity notes! i would have been soooo bludy upset if she done that, also i received my pregnancy diary from docs today, WAS 4 FECKING WEEKS SINCE ERPC!! surely they should have got it into there heads by now!!!!!!!!!!!
sorry for the rant girls xxxxx
really soon!!!
xx
