Being Facebook bullied :-(

[emlubu]

Hi all.....
Cut a long story short my husband cheated on me with another girl 5 months ago me and my daughter left due to this, my daughter was only 16 months old!!!
He basically had contact regular and one over night tO but become aggressive in his behaviour and was threatening me with violence with my daughter in his arms... Since then got a solicitor and says supervised contact only which he doesn't want and will only see her if I do the contact!! Not any of my family!

Now I have his sisters and him threatening me all the time over Facebook saying I'm using my daughter as a weapon and do it cos I won't win and just feel very threatened!! It's constant too!!!

What can I do?

I feel like I've done the wring but it's him that cheated

 

[stevon111]

get rid of facebook...simple...

theres more to life than that.

 

[Snuffy]

Block and report them.

 

[bigbetty]

Hey love please tell me to butt out - I'm not a single parent - but I agree with what the others have said. You have 3 choices - let things carry on as they are, block your ex and anyone else who is hassling you, or just close your account!

You have done nothing wrong and shouldn't have to put up with this treatment xx

 

[kirst1805]

I've gotta agree with the other posters, either block and report them, or get rid of Facebook.. I've never seen the attraction.. Saying that I've got a twitter account which is rarely used though..

xxx

 

[Vixen_17]

What they said, the answer is simple. The control is there for you to take if you choose to.

 

[MummyJade]

take screen shots and keep the evidence, then if it carries on you can get police involved and make sure your solicitor sees the abuse x

 

[AbbynChloe]

Hi there, I agree with what all the ladies have said - I would keep screen shots then block them all xxxxxxx

 

[Rhio92]

Take screen shots and save them all. Block them all or anyone who knows them.
If worse comes to worse, delete Facebook. I had to delete mine for a few days, which is actually easier than it sounds
Hope everything gets better xxx

 

[stevon111]

just get rid of facebook altogether...then make a new account up in a few months time...im sure it will work wonders and then you have the control over who you have on there and who you havent!

hope all works out...

p.s...i disagree with the others to a point where i dont think you should take screen shots...the reason why... becouse you will just get more and more upset over everything where if you just delete facebook for a while or dont go on (i know its tempting) but it will do you the best thing

 

[Rhio92]

just get rid of facebook altogether...then make a new account up in a few months time...im sure it will work wonders and then you have the control over who you have on there and who you havent!

hope all works out...

p.s...i disagree with the others to a point where i dont think you should take screen shots...the reason why... becouse you will just get more and more upset over everything where if you just delete facebook for a while or dont go on (i know its tempting) but it will do you the best thing

Yeah but it's evidence in case it gets to the point where she needs to go to the police.

 

[Snowball]

I'd keep enforcing the contact centre, ignore what troff they are coming out with, they are only saying it because he hasn't done no wrong to them... but he will one day hun... a leopard never changes his spots and then he'll be all alone, not you