BFN today.....feeling blue

[ashleigh2188]

Hi all, Im kinda a newbie me and partner have been ttc now for over a year both been told were perfectly fine and after coming off meds and bcp everything seemed positive, but tested again today for this month and no luck!!!! Anyone else impatient???? Also extra blue as my neighbour recently gave birth and her little boy is only a week old and she's had him out getting a tan and last night through a massive party Ive babysat for her 7 times now its almost as if he's a nusance to her ......makes me so frustrated

 

[nikky0907]

I'm sorry but if you go browse the site a bit,you'll see many wonderful stories of women who tried for years and were blessed.

If you two are both fine than the statistics go that a big percentage of women will fall pregnant within the first year of trying,another percentage within two years and the small remaing percentage will still have loads of options.
You're young,you and your OH have all the time in the world...

Good luck!

 

[polo_princess]

It took me countless attempts to fall pregnant as it does with many women ...

Dont give up stay positive!!

 

[seosage]

It'll happen I'm sure - just don't put your life on hold waiting for it to happen.

It took us 3 years - all investigations showed we were fine - I had bloodwork and a laparoscopy to check. We tried 2 goes of IUI which failed - so we finally decided to give up and spend the money on holidays instead... at which point it happened.

Good Luck

 

[Blob]

Good Luck, its not easy for everyone to get pregnant, my mum took years to get pregnant. Hopefully you will get a positive soon.

 

[ashleigh2188]

Thanks for your comments ladies, you've made me feel a bit more positive xxx

 

[Linzi]

Its not always easy hun, my OH and I weren't trying, but it was still about a year and a half between coming off contraception and me falling pregnant.

Especially if you've been on the pill or had the implant or something like that, I think they say that it can take up to 6 months for the pill to clear out of your system.

You're young, you have plenty of time. Enjoy each other!

Good luck for the future

xxx

 

[7WZ]

Took me 9 months but it felt like forever. Just look after yourself and it should happen for you fingers crossed!

 

[Blah11]

Wait what? A newborn getting a tan wtfffff.

 

[Blah11]

+ yeah, like people have said it will happen eventually. My baby was unplanned and I was on the pill so I must have rebelious eggs but my mum was TTC for 21 months before she fell pregnant with me. With her next kid she came off the pill and 3 weeks later she was pregnant again!