BFN

[BabyFeverMsT]

Today is my first day actually having an account on a site. But I have lurked on sites like these for some years. My heart is hurting and I needed someone to talk to. People who are going through something similar to me. Today I should be 14 dpo. While sitting at work I had the urge to go home on lunch (I stay 5 minutes away) and test. I got home...took a test and of course it was a BFN. I instantly wanted to cry and regretted doing it on my lunch break. But I pulled myself together. This month I kinda thought this was the month. I had spotting around what I thought was ovulation (I've never seen blood other than my period). I had twinges on my L side a few days after that. But it was always a part of me doubting it. I guess trying to protect my feelings for this moment right here. I thought I had everything right. The timing of intercourse and I was taking my temperature. iDK how to feel

 

[2ducks]

Hello! Remember that even with perfect timing you only have about %20 chance each cycle of conception. I encourage you not to symptom spot....it often ends in disappointment.

We have all been there, thinking for sure that this is the month only to have it end it disappointment and heartache. The only thing to do is keep on doing what you're doing. I have found comfort in participating in this board and supporting other women. I encourage you to do the same.

Good luck and I hope to see you around!

 

[BabyFeverMsT]

Hi! I know I shouldn't symptom spot. I'm just gone get ready for next month. See you around.