BFP by Oct 2015 TTC & BFP Group. (was the BFP by Oct 13 thread but the bubs are here)

[MrsBroodyPant]

Dh said we will go if anything else happens e.g more blood or pain or something. I know that if im losing the baby then there is nothing anyone can do. Im glad ive got a scan soon. Not long to wait. Im trying to keep hopeful but not really sure what to think xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Brown is good , it means old blood . Hang in there girl, it is such a worry but the chances are everything is fine , the odds are in your favour xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[twinmummy06]

Can they bring the scan forward for you, like try calling Monday and beg. There's nothing worse than limbo land

 

[xxDreamxx]

I agree with Twin....can you ask for an earlier scan? I know brown blood is old blood so it could be the blood you had a few days ago which is now old and mixed with discharge, has come out on to underwear. I know I had very beige/tan discharge....I was constantly worrying to twin about it the early days.

Am keeping everything crossed for you hon {hugs}

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks ladies.
I can't get my scan moved because they won't scan anyone before 8 weeks and im 8 weeks on wed.
I will just see what happens today. I haven't had anymore at the moment so it's not a continuous thing. I think u are right about the old blood left over from my red bleed. Stressful or what lol xxx

 

[xxDreamxx]

Remember how insecure we were in the TTC group? I think it boils down to the BFP being the first hurdle.... now that we are no longer naïve first pregnancy BFP girls, we know we have 40 weeks to get through before the ultimate goal of holding our baby's in our arms is achieved. {hugs}

So, although we might all be different gestations and our worries are slightly different.... we are all a big ol bag of hormonal nerves haha and we're all in this together.

Just take it easy until Wednesday hon. I am thinking positive thoughts for you xx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thank u.
I know what u mean. Im very grateful to have this chance. No more blood at the moment. Just gotta keep positive coz I am one step closer to a baby then I was in ttc.

Xxx

 

[Helena_]

I'm still on blood watch! I run to the bathroom several times a day and then I prepare myself when I look at the toilet paper. I don't think the fear of first tri ever goes away. It's a scary time being stuck in limbo forso many months. I think when wwe're ttc we forget all that. Never again will I moan about a pregnant lady having nerves. I used to think once you got that bfp all was dandy, but that all changed when I lost my first baby. I think, especially for us, it's normal to be on extra high alert and super sensitive over anything that relates to our babies.
38-39 weeks cant come soon enough!

Stay strong. You'll be seeing a flickering heart in a few short days

 

[twinmummy06]

Pregnancy after a loss is no walk in the park. It's easy to just tell someone to be happy they're pregnant, enjoy it. It's a whole different ball game to live through it.

The fear never goes away, it just adapts to our current situation.

No embryo. No heartbeat. MMC. Bleeding. Cramping. Some sort of chromosomal issue. Second tri miscarriage. PPROM. IUGR. Premature birth. Cord accident. Stillbirth. Is baby moving enough? Is baby moving too much? I could go on forever.

And don't get me started on after they're born.

I have ridiculous scenarios run through my mind all the time.

 

[Left wonderin]

Twin I hear ya !! I still check for blood every time I wee ... ( and thank god when I'm in the clear ! ) I'm 28 weeks tommrow and worry from the moment I open my eyes to the moment I close them !! I mainly worry about cord accidents these days but that's only this weeks worry lol...... Another I worry about is a fluid leak ( amniotic fluid) .... Ill not stop till after I hear that first cry and he is resting on me and I'm looking into his eyes )

Broody is so positive its brown and not constant ... There is every reason to continue to be hopeful and believe that this is your sticky beanie

 

[c.m.c]

MrsB hoping all is well on wed....I really think it will be....ESP as no blood anymore and it was only spotting....keeping everything crossed for you.

I still worry....as twin says its nearly worse when they're here!,!! I worry bout dd all the time

 

[twinmummy06]

Sucks they won't move the scan forward. You'd think they'd have a little compassion It's the waiting that sends my mind into overdrive.

Hoping everything is still going well MrsB, it's slowly getting closer to Wednesday.

 

[xxDreamxx]

23 weeks today!

I am off out for lunch with a friend & then staying at my Dads for 2 nights as hubby is away with work. My Step mum is away too so Dad and I can keep each other company. plus he is an awesome cook hahahaha

 

[twinmummy06]

Put those feet up and enjoy his cooking

 

[Left wonderin]

Happy change over day Tuesday ladies I'm 28 weeks today eeeeeeek . In 4 weeks the book says to have a hospital bag packed lol .......... It all is begining to get very real !!! Have my GD test on Monday , hoping for a good outcome

 

[c.m.c]

Hi everyone, I must really change my ticker....baby measuring ahead again....must be a big baby like my dd!! Still due 7th April but all measuring a bit earlier....seems crazy after my original date was 15th.

20 week scan today all is perfect thank goodness. Baby still the same gender lol!! I was so scared I could hardly breathe when checking heart diaphragm etc!M


MrsB just want to say I will thinking of you tomorrow, really ave a good feeling or you. Let us know how it's goes

 

[c.m.c]

Lw I packed my bag about 29 weeks but as each week went on I added new things to my bag so I felt really organised by the end.
FX for the gd results


Dream.....sounds like a great break away for you.....enjoy all the yummy old.

Helena how are you feeling? I hope alls well and no more scares for you

 

[c.m.c]

20. Weeks

 

[xxDreamxx]

Awwww CMC cute pic....so glad the scan went well

MrsBP I know it is still Tuesday night in the uk but it's Wednesday here so wishing you well for your scan. It will be late night here when you go in for your scan so I hope to wake up Thursday morning to good news from you {hugs}

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thank u all, I will update later!

Cmc - lovely picture! Im so glad everything is ok.

Xxx