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BFP by Oct 2015 TTC & BFP Group. (was the BFP by Oct 13 thread but the bubs are here)

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LadyLuck - that is fantastic news :) Do you know when you are due? I will add your number to the title and your due date to page 1 :)
 
Lady I am soooooo happy for you!!! Great news


Lw.....I feel for you....the end it's hard to even eat a meal as there's just no room left.....though I cannot believe you've only 5 or so weeks left......that amazing


Twin....awwwww no way you were sooooo team yellow!!! Can't believe they let it slip but congrats on your blue bundle


Afm....today was my original due date......I've been busy and haven't thought much about it.....I kinda though around new year that I could have had twins around now but I'm thankful to be 26 weeks and focusing on this baby now
 
Cmc glad your keeping busy. Due dates are so hard even if you are pregnant thinking about what could have been.
 
Yahoooooo lucky :) I'm so delighted for you :))))))))) is it time for a ticker ;) hearing that hb for the first time is very very special xxxxxxxx
 
Ladyluck - you can click someone else's ticker you like the look of, or just Google pregnancy ticker. Choose design and enter all the relevant info.

Then go to edit signature and copy and paste the link that the ticker will provide you with, into your sig. Now don't quote me but I think its the ticker that usually starts with [url
Just try the different links until you get one that work is what I end up doing half the time :haha:
 
I forgot to tell you all, (twin knows....cos she's my fellow Aussie and the one I whinge to a few times a day) haha

I am 95% likely going to have an elective c section after 38 weeks. I broke down in my Obs office and said how I almost wanted bub to be in the wrong position so we had no choice & my ob told me that I could make that choice and asked me for my concerns. I told her how I was feeling like I was behind an emotional glass wall esp around others in my Mothers group, 5 of them have had bubs already and I am one of the last due in March. I felt scared like I might end up empty handed and after everything we have been through in last few years (nearly losing uterus in 2012, finding out my egg reserve was low, that hubby had chromosome and sperm issues & then getting pregnant through fertility treatment only to lose bub at 16 weeks), well I was scared of birth and the things that could go wrong. Sooooo my Ob feels that emotionally a c section would be best....we can pick a date.....bub will be out quickly and it will just be recovery for me that is more than it would be for a normal vaginal birth (but bearing in mind I have had 4 previous abdominal surgeries, I know what to expect). She said I can change my mind even if we set a date, so next visit (16 Jan) I will set a date (most likely Friday 7 March).

So there you have it. I will most likely cop some hassle from my family for choosing an operation....but my ob did say she felt an elective was way better than an emergency one and didn't want that for me
 
dream - brave decision - you have to do what feels right for you and baby.
 
You already know my opinion - as long as baby comes out safe and healthy and mumma is fine too, then either exit is fine.

I know how you're feeling. I desperately wanted a VBA2C. Even with Aubrey I was dead set on pushing to be allowed to try naturally.

Now, no way - I'm taking my elective csection as I don't want to risk anything. Sure I'd love to be able to experience a proper labour, but not enough to risk me and baby's wellbeing (physically and emotionally) as they will not induce VBAC's due to possibility of uterine rupture (be it small). So then there's the possibility of going over due - which scares me with the GD risks.


And screw their opinions - it doesn't concern them at all. Either way you are the one recovering. Grrrrr.
 
Thanks girls :)

Right....title updated, page 1 updated to include Ladyluck's date, Twin's Blue stork and Sarah's Pink stork!!!! Congrats to Sarah! She may no longer be on BNB but she is not forgotten :)
 
I know Exactly how you feel dream , you put into words so well how I am feeling and have been the last few weeks . The closer it gets to the end the more anxious I become , not about labour or delivery but that something will go wrong and ill end up empty handed :( I'm currently obsessed with counting kicks !!! Its an awful feeling and I am trying to normalise it , it just feels too good to be true that I will Actually get to be a mum .

Anyway I agree with Twin it really doesn't matter one little bit how our LO arrive into the world , just that they do and safely as possible . Me I've no birth plan and no expectations for one . Ill wait and see what happens and go with what is recommended in the best interest of baby :)
 
Dream I def think you know what's best for you and go for it!!! It doesn't matter how your son gets here as long as he gets here safe and well
 
Just read that message about Sarah's pink stalk. I didn't even know she was pregnant! are u friends with her on Facebook. Lovely news
 
LadyLuck - yes, myself, Twin & Helena all keep in contact with her (not sure on any others). I will tell her you said "Hi" :)
 
Good, good. Sitting here waiting for my anaesthetic review. Let's hope they aren't in surgery today so I actually get seen :haha:
 
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