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Hi All
I am new to this forum and am from Sydney, Australia. I hope someone can help ...
It's hard to know where to start because until a week ago all was going to plan ... Please bear with me ... I am 32.5 weeks along.
After being really big and uncomfortable it was discovered I had excessive amnionic fluid (polyhydramnios). Baby too had some fluid in it's chest compressing a lung and pushing it's little heart to the right. We drained mine and the baby's fluid and thought at least now bub can develop his little lungs. Some fluid has returned and there already has been some improvement in the lung. The heart appears to be working fine despite it being on the right.
The doctor also says the baby is measuring big for the gestation. Again I thought just a big baby with fluid but the doctor is very concerned we have a chromosomal issue and bub may be severely disabled as a result.
I do not have gestational diabetes. All infection tests are clear. Ultrasounds do not point to there being any physical soft markers for a chromosomal issue. We have had the amnionic fluid tested and the major syndromes have also come back negative. The geneticist says they can't test everything and are convinced it is a syndrome.
So we may have an isolated big baby with fluid in it's chest or a baby with a rare and serious defect - we won't know for sure until birth.
We have been offered a termination which to me implies they are certain the outcome isn't good. I can't reconcile that and certainly have no intention of ending a pregnancy based on a hunch knowing there is a chance that the baby is just big with fluid.
I am not sure what I am asking here but all I know is that I can't breathe or function. This is our 3rd and I need to be there for my other littlies but I can't function.
We have been offered a test for Costello Syndrome however they still believe even if a negative result they'll think we have something else in that family that can't be tested. Geneticists can be wrong???
Anyone had something similar happen and what was your outcome?
Thank you in advance
I am new to this forum and am from Sydney, Australia. I hope someone can help ...
It's hard to know where to start because until a week ago all was going to plan ... Please bear with me ... I am 32.5 weeks along.
After being really big and uncomfortable it was discovered I had excessive amnionic fluid (polyhydramnios). Baby too had some fluid in it's chest compressing a lung and pushing it's little heart to the right. We drained mine and the baby's fluid and thought at least now bub can develop his little lungs. Some fluid has returned and there already has been some improvement in the lung. The heart appears to be working fine despite it being on the right.
The doctor also says the baby is measuring big for the gestation. Again I thought just a big baby with fluid but the doctor is very concerned we have a chromosomal issue and bub may be severely disabled as a result.
I do not have gestational diabetes. All infection tests are clear. Ultrasounds do not point to there being any physical soft markers for a chromosomal issue. We have had the amnionic fluid tested and the major syndromes have also come back negative. The geneticist says they can't test everything and are convinced it is a syndrome.
So we may have an isolated big baby with fluid in it's chest or a baby with a rare and serious defect - we won't know for sure until birth.
We have been offered a termination which to me implies they are certain the outcome isn't good. I can't reconcile that and certainly have no intention of ending a pregnancy based on a hunch knowing there is a chance that the baby is just big with fluid.
I am not sure what I am asking here but all I know is that I can't breathe or function. This is our 3rd and I need to be there for my other littlies but I can't function.
We have been offered a test for Costello Syndrome however they still believe even if a negative result they'll think we have something else in that family that can't be tested. Geneticists can be wrong???
Anyone had something similar happen and what was your outcome?
Thank you in advance