bit of help please

[dakron67]

hi girls, didn't kno where to ask this question, but thought this forum was proberly appropriate, my heads not straight at the moment so iv proberly gone past the forum that i want, looking for poems & verses to go into book of rememberance for our 4th loss which is due to be cremated next wk, then baby num 5 cremation/memoria-service will be done end of aug, feel really screwd up, babies 1 & 2 were buried in a local church, babies memorial garden, but they have no more room which is why baby 3 was cremated n to be followed by 4 & 5, so to go on just need to get it out before i totally lose the plot... thanx donna xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

I really think you need to post in the Miscarriage forum sweetheart, as this forum is for pregnancy after loss. I am sending so much love and your way, and hoping you get your healthy beanie so soon.

Stay strong, and if you can't cope please go and talk to the doctor and ask them to put you on to a grief councillor.

 

[dakron67]

ok thank you for that, i went to c a counciler 1st session was get to kno me etc they said i defonatly needed one to one help, but although iv tried to get bk to them they don't have anyone available at present, so im left to my own devices n thoughts which arn't good, sorry to go on love, thanx again for your advice xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

Don't be sorry chica, you haven't done anything wrong. I am so sorry you are not getting the support you need. Have you been to the doctors and asked for a refferal? There is nothing wrong with needing someone to talk to babes. Also, I don't know if you are religious but the Chaplin at our hospital offered me councilling anytime after we lost Edan, maybe that might be a possibility?

Sending love and healing wishes