So I'm now 40+2 and in the last few days OH has completely trashed my favourite boys name -Rafferty. Boo I know you love the name as much as me, so I will do my best to get it back on the list(!) In the meantime can you or any other ladies help me with some alternatives in the same sort of vibe? The middle name will be Joseph. We can't use names beginning with N. We prefer full names with an obvious nn (like Finlay - Finn) and we are keen to stay away from the Williams, Harry, Georges as royal names aren't really us and soo popular here. Anyone have anything to inspire us? OH's pick is Sebastian (which is nice but I'm a little bored of) and we're considering Gabriel (but then neither of us love it). I realise we are ridiculously picky but any suggestion very welcome at this stage!