Breaking news to Mum...sigh

[LJaydow]

I am glad that she is alright and didnt totally over react! I am 22 and have been living with my partner for about a year and a half now, and I am planning on telling her today and I am literally like having panic attacks just thinking about it! Just dont want her to be disappointed :-/

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

awww hun, she will come round, my dad was so disapointed in me when I fell pregnant with Evie, i was 18 and he gave me the lecture your mum probably did you.
Congratulations, you are your own person babe, dont forget that xx

 

[dizzy65]

 

[reiller]

ok so today I finally plucked u the courage to tell my Mum about being pregnant.
I woke up feeling like I just couldnt handle being at home with such a big secret so i went downstairs with no plan of what or how I were to say it but all i knew was i had to just come out and say it!
i nticed sher was eatingher lunch so I walked into the kitchen instead where I met my brother who already knew..."I cant do it anymore I have to tell mum today" he sighed and gave me a hug and told me to calm down and not to let it get me down. So we went to his room where we waited for mum to finsh eating. as soon as she finished my heard was beating sooo fast i started to feel dizzy.
Mum and sister came into the room where my brother had told them we needed to talk and my mum said "what is it" and looked im my face and just said "your pregnant?!" i just put my hand over my mouth and nodded and she cried and walked out of the room.
I burst into tears at the thought of her being so upset she had resulted into tears. as she came back in she said how she was dissapointed and why didnt i finish uni and stuff. Her face was so red which really upset me...especially because having a red face and being a black person shows alot of emotion.
well to cut a 2-3 hour emotion filled talk/lecture/expression of feelings short...she didnt take it so well...at the end of the conversation she did lighten up and I thought it was fine but now she is off with me and I feel so odd now..my sister was shocked and thought I was joking untill she saw how upset mum was...I hope she comes to terms with the situation soon and we can be close again because although i thought i braced myself for the worst i feel very down right now.
OH told his mum aswell and she took it much more better, well hes older so it would be but good news to her I guess.

HUn my mum was absolutley devastated when I told her what had happened.and im with my fella nearly 5 years..she didnt cry but went stone cold on me... Now she's fecking delighted and cannot wait...she will be fine and you'll be a great mummy everything happens for a reason she will come around trust me...Godd luck with your little boy/girl
xxxxx

 

[happy-evie]

thanks girls your all so supportive...my mum is talking to me now, coming to my room to see if im okay, offering to make my dinner, asking questions aboutt my appointments and if i have the right vitamins.
getting there ...i would have gave her at least two weeks....x

 

[Sophiiie]

it's just the initial shock.. but i'm sure that as soon as she sat down & thought about the fact she's going to have a grandbaby, she got really excited deep down glad to hear she's being supportive already though x

 

[pinkribbon]

Things were awkward in my household for a little while, every time I walked into a room things would just feel tense and I hated it, but things are fine now and my parents are lookin forward to meeting their grandson. She will come around I'm sure. x x

 

[cotawalls]

She'll come around... I told my Mom over the phone (we lived quite a distance away from each other) She hung up on me, and didnt talk to me for like a week.. And then one day shes just like "I hope hes a boy.. and Im buying you this and this.." Complete turn around... Lol..