well. 4 weeks into our planning and we have 5 weeks to go - 5 weeks today we will be AT our wedding reception
so. in 4 weeks we have:
- found and booked church
- found and booked reception venue, had meeting and all, got to pay next week
- made & sent out invites and had pretty much all responses
- found my dress, it's being altered and I have a fitting next Thur
- found & bought shoes
- found my bridesmaids' & flower girl's dresses, plus accessories, one dress is being altered (they are getting their own shoes)
- ordered suits for my page boy and my son (his post-christening outfit)
- ordered suits for OH and my dad
- ordered rings and collected them
- chosen hymns & readings
- planned table decorations and bought/ordered some of the things we need
- chosen designs for cakes (being made by OH's mum's friend)
- booked hotel for my family who are travelling to London, as well as us
still to do
- meet with vicar (next Fri) and choose rest of music (depending on what organist can play and whether or not church is equipped to play CDs/MP3s)
- orders of service (will have a partial proof to show vicar, minus details of music)- OH is doing the OoS
- go to Ikea for cheap vases for tables
- buy flowers (day before wedding - daffs for tables, pink roses for me and buttonholes; make bouquet and buttonholes)
- decide what if any flowers bridesmaids are having
- get my hair cut
- find some sort of hair ornament - tiara??
- order fur wrap (chosen but waiting for fabric sample to check with dress)
- PHOTOGRAPHER (OH is finding one; he is hoping a friend - who is a pro- can do it ... this is the one major outstanding thing)
- plan music for reception
- choose first dance music & brief DJ for disco (there is some stuff I don't want)
- book black cab for me and my dad to travel to church and normal cabs for others who need them
- find something nice for Adam's feet
- have practise runs with flowers and make-up
- decide whether or not to get gifts for my attendants and if so what and also if so, get them
erm... sure there is lots of other stuff I've forgotten, hopefully nothing major...