Broke up with my fiance =(

[kdavis89]

Well I guess I belong here now as well.. I just broke up with my fiance and I am 34 weeks pregnant with my first baby.. He has been in jail since I was 12 weeks pregnant and hasn't been any help at all.. He always lies to me about and only cares about himself I try to talk about me and our baby but everything has to go back to being about him.. I don't even believe that he has told his parents about our son.. I live in a different state than him and his family.. He was extradited back there for charges he had.. I have never even met his family and they knew nothing about me until he was arrested... I'm so scared about being a mum and I know it is going to be so hard but at least I have my family around to support me and in the long run I don't need him in mine or my son's life anymore.. But I also feel relieved as I dont have him controlling me and treating me like dirt anymore!! sorry for the long post!

 

[teal]

I'm sorry you've had a hard time but welcome to this part of the forum

I know it's scary but you'll be absolutely fine. xx

 

[Shezza84uk]

I am sorry you are going through this, I know it is hard but try to focus on yourself and your baby you will be absolutely fine xx

 

[Danie1stbaby]

Kudos to you for moving on and giving Lo a chance at having a normal and great life.Welcome~The ladies up here will make you feel at home,it helps to know you are not alone and others have been through it and going through it.

 

[JennyBLove]

aww im sorry your having hard time but that good your feeling relief from the issues he has givin you!!! thats good you ave your family to help you out!! i understand it still hurts going through this without the father of baby, but its too bad he didnt involve you more. My ex never told his mother either...i had to since i had her number from another time. Yeah thats too bad i would maybe talk to them if you want a grandma n stuff for baby, but im glad u have the support you need. I hope you feel better, n we are always here to talk Your getting very close by the way!!excited for you

 

[kdavis89]

Yeah I know hopefully it's easier to deal with once bubs is here =) and I have messaged my exs dad about my little boy but got nothing back but in the end it's their loss. And I thank all of you lovely ladies for your support it is also helping make things seem better